ok I have a best friend and we just slowly seperated..its wierd talking to her and it just doesnt feel the same..i love her to death but, she basically moved on...even her mom thinks we arent friends...i mean i try to tell her that I've been realizing something has changed but i dont know how..what should i do for us to be normal again?
2007-04-23 15:21:42 · 16 answers · asked by xwhoaxbay-beex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes things just don't get back to normal. If she has moved on she may never come back. This has happened to me before and for two years we were totally weird around eachother. But now we have had the time to hang out for the first time really in 2 years and we are getting back on track. Try scheduling a 'hang out time' with just you 2 so that if you need to talk you can and there will be no distractions. Good luck!!!!!!!!♥
2007-04-23 15:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST went thru this, my b.f. and I didn't talk for 3 months. One day I sent her an e-mail and all is said was "i miss you"
a few hours later she sent 1 back and it said "i miss you to"
all you have to do is talk to her about it, ask why she's acting different. Don't be combative, just tell her that she is your best friend and you miss her and the way it use to be. If she is a real friend she will make an effort. Good Luck!!
2007-04-23 15:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by jilly322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sucks, but sometimes this happens. People just grow apart. Try hanging out just the two of you some more and make more of an effort to talk every day. Good luck!
2007-04-23 15:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to stay friends with her, talk it out. But you have to realize that people change. You won't keep all the friends you make. I hate to be the bearer of bad news. I used to have a really close friend named Christine, but as we got into our teen years, our personalities changed and we got interested in different stuff. We just stopped hanging out. Yeah, I kind of miss her, but I made new friends who share my interests.
2007-04-23 15:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by blue_seal07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you see her, say hi and try to start a small conversation. Also hand out more and talk more. Talk on the phone about some hot guy or something.
2007-04-23 15:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Missy Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk things out, but also keep in mind that some friends are like seasons.
2007-04-23 15:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Superman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks the same about you. If I were you I would call her sometime and talk to her about it and see if that helps. It has happened to me before but my friend and I worked it out.
2007-04-23 15:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by jojosmbdy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be open and honest with her. Tell her what you told us - that something has changed in the relationship. That's the best way to handle it. Friendships can be rekindled with honesty.
2007-04-23 15:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me and my best friend! we were friends for almost 10 yrs, i noticed a change in her and i tried but sometimes people just change!!! i suggest you confront the issue to see if there is a problem and just take it from there!!!
2007-04-23 15:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will prob never be the same as you were, people change. But that doesn't mean that your not friends. Just keep in touch.
2007-04-23 15:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋