mean girls?

Question

there is this girl at school who has been being really mean to me. it all started with a stupid coment about a singer. cheyenne kimball. the girl has been harrassing me and calling me names. i've told her to stop, i've gone to the school and discussed it with them, i've even talked to my mom. she still hasn't stopped. what do i do?

thanks for all the help. i will try to do my best in staying non-violent. all the responses are great. i don't think i can pick a 'best'. :)

Answer 1

girls are horrible. laugh at her when she says something to you act like it doesnt bother you. make friends with some boys and hang around them. they will certainly put her in her place. learn boxing ar some defence sport so if her words ever do become violence you can defend yourself and once she know you ar not a push over she'll back off. the say words can never hurt you but in my experience they have a more lasting effect than any flesh wound dont let her get the better of you tell her to seek councelling she is obviously troubled

Answer 2

You have to stand up for yourself.Sometimes just telling someone to stop doing somthing will not always work.If this girl is messing with you and you don't like it,then you need to let her know just how serious you are about this.Don't back down because you are afraid of her or because you are shy.That is a sign of weakness and aslong as you let her torment you-she will take the opertunity.Tell her that if she doesn't stop messing with you then you will take it up to the principle.She might call you a tattletale but if you have tried everything else to make her stop and she hasn't,then it is the right thing to do.She obviously doesn't have anything better to do then torment you.She must be insacure or somthing....If I were you I would probibly punch her in the face and get suspended lol but I am not you and that's just it...I don't think you want to do what I would do but just do what you think is right.Good luck

Answer 3

Well people like this you have to come at them with a direct approach. Don't do the same things that she's doing to you, ignore but if she so much as lays one hand on you beat the crap out of her. When she says something turn around look her right in the face, and ask her what the hell her problem is? If she doesn't say anything then that means she's a coward. The fact that she hasn't done anything to you shows that she's all talk and no action. You're going to have to be direct and upfront with her. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 4

There is only one way this is going to end,we all have been there. I no it's not what you want to hear but it's the only this is going to play it's self out.This girl will keep on bullying you
because it makes her look tuff and she likes doing it.Not to many girls will stand up to her and she knows this.You would be surprise to no that 9 out of 10 girls that do this thing can't fight they depend on you being afraid of her and backing down from her.You are going to have to fight her and knowing this you have the advantage because you no what your going to do,you will see her coming and hit her as hard as you can in her face.Always get the first hit in.you can't be any smaller then me.I stand a big 4"11ft tall and 100 lbs and I have been in so many fights in my life.Every time I hit first I have never backed out of a fight.Sorry but you will fight her or she will come after you,you don't want people to start calling you chicken do you. It sounds like you have tried other means of
getting her to stop,some people just won't back off,when that happens what do you do.Nothing can really be done to her because she hasn't done anything to you,so the teacher's and principle can't do a thing but talk to her.Don't anyone here have a back bone.

Answer 5

I would try to ignore her. She's just a bully. She's doing this because she knows it bothers you. So don't show any signs that it is upsetting you, instead just look the other way - don't say a word to her. Once you have come across you don't care, she'll stop as you won't be a challenge to her anymore. She then will find somebody else to pick on.

Answer 6

Get her for harrassment....she'll stop after the law has a talk with her. If no-one else wants to help you. Sorry to hear you have to go to school and put up with stuff like that. It's not right!

Answer 7

Girls will be girls. I been thu it. The best thing to do is ignor it and get on with your life. It's hard I know but theres not alot you can really do about it.


oh and getting even doesn't help either just gets you in trouble. I learnt the hard way.

Answer 8

ignore her as much as possible and do not react to her and then and only then will the harrassing stop.

or you could talk to her when you both are alone and just talk to her. if any yelling or teasing or harrassing still persists then stop all contact and reactions to her.

good luck!

Answer 9

First, ignore her completely. If that doesn't work, go to Plan B: stand up for yourself. Say something that will make her respect you (but not fear you). Remember though, that violence is not the answer, and even if you are the victim, if you hit her first, you will get in trouble.

Answer 10

Its time for you parents to take over, you have a right to go to school in peace. Tell your parents it hasnt stopped and have them talk to the school again. If the school does not respond, then next time your parents lawyer should talk to them.