Why are scorpio's so misunderstood ?

Question

I'm a scorpio male that is fine with being misunderstood it's just I never understood how people come up with such strong inclinations without true fact.

Answer 1

I find Scorpio men to be very kind and thoughtful.

It is because you are all very quiet, mostly and keep to yourselves.

Don't feel bad, I am a person who keeps to herself (totally against my sign) mostly and people attach all sorts of lies and such about me too.

I read in a book once that when people don't feel they KNOW you, they tend to "assign" you a personality or character or actions. The book said this is "human nature".

I believe it is because most people want the easiest answer. They want to be able to say all dogs have fleas or all Marines are mindless killers. It is easier to make these assumptions.

What that book also told me was that more introverted people, such as myself, need to open up more so that people can know you. Now, I am willing to do this to a degree in the workplace, but really it is too much.

I am the type of person who gets to know someone before I decide what a person is like. I don't take hearsay as fact: the person talking might have an agenda or THEY might be the one with the problem.

But most people aren't that way...

...that to me is why scorpio's are misunderstood..

Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 2

I too am a Scorpio. I don’t think I really get misunderstood.. Only time that really happens is when there is a falling out with someone. This sign is one of the most dangerous. I say this because loyalty, honour, sex, ability to give, hard workers, focused…. Holds a lot of weight into today’s world and within ourselves. When someone has taken advantage of any of these things. High HELL comes and tempers flair. We are very possessive with the people and things around us.. It’s to help protect.
When I’m focused on something and someone interrupts it, most don’t understand why solitude and get away attitude is there. We like to finish what was started. Not meaning to be rude just left alone to finish don’t need to talk all the time about useless information. We don’t need that special attention for everyone to like us.

Also we are the type people can leave alone and trust. Most people can’t handle it. Because we are MYSTERIOUS and only let out feelings out when we are with someone we fully trust. People think we are up to something. When really you just don’t people to know all your business.

There are such good traits in this sign that people tend to misunderstand how much of a hold it really does have on us. They never feel the full effect until something happens. Usually for the worst.

Sex plays a huge roll in this... Sex comes freely to those you truly care about. Once the trust is gone so does the great sex. We have the ability to attract the opposite sex without having to show what we have. Period. Now how many people can pull that off ??
SEX, temper, trust and loyalty, and giving are the things that really stand out in a Scorpio and also it’s that person miss’s the most. How many ex’s do you have that have HATED the idea of you sleeping with another???? It truly pulls at their heart strings. Because they feel the sex and affection is for them only because you truly loved and care for that person. Every ex I have truly misses me because NOW they see the whys!!!!

Yes all the signs have their strong points and weakness just like the Scorpio but really this one does stand out by far. Other then Libra and Cancer they are the ones who can help Scorpio even thou the stars say they don’t. I know this from personal experience. Plus hearing it from other Scorpios. Those two signs are the ones we tend to bond with the best. After all they have that unity that Scorpio likes to be apart of and can take a hold of it.

Answer 3

Hi! It must suck being misunderstood, but I think that concerns all the Zodiac signs. For instance, I'm Pisces and apparently for some people that automatically makes me weak, soppy and annoyingly romantic (also a potential drunk). Tough, but that's how it goes. Ppl like to put everything in boxes and claim they know everything. So you're not alone there. As to the stereotype stuff people come up with, I've heard only nice things about Scorpios, how bad can it be?

Answer 4

Your really need to describe a clock with 12 elements. Your astrological sign is Scropio. This presents an outward picture of how you are viewed by others,It's the part of self which expresses mystery, occult, death and sexuality . Your other 11 attributes make you unique and cannot be described without specific personal generalities. Scorpios love deeply but are not always honest about the sexual self and faithfullness. Often loyal to family and lovers, many relationships enter your vein. It this makes you misunderstood, then focus on honesty.

Answer 5

There are no such things as Scorpios. The position of the sun and stars and planets has no affects on a personality. Scorpios are loving but cold, vague but specific. It's all crap and no one can really take this seriously, right?

Answer 6

My best friend is a Scorpio, She's not mean at all, but she can be pushy. Scorpio's r good people, they just see things in their way and want to show that to people. Plus if they have their mind set on something, then they're going to do it. That might come off as mean or self centered, but their not. Their good people with a different set of mind... Maybe stubborn would be a good word to us for they, but then again who isn't stubborn when it comes to things they want?!

Answer 7

I think it is because people have the wrong expectations plus they are not really listening to you.

My hubby is scorpio, He has a huge heart for helping people & sometimes he gives so much of himself trying to help others that he gets sick . Like most all humans we can be mean if provoked. He is very loyal & hard working.

I have 4 other close relatives that are Scorpio's & they are all kind, caring & loyal. I strongly believe that these traits are learned not due to an arrangement of stars, because my star arrangment is differant than hubby's or my Mom's & all 3 of us have the same good traits.

Good comunication has to be worked on & fine tuned , not left up to the stars.

Answer 8

I agree and I'm also a scorpio, everyone thinks scorpio's are mean and stuff. I never tell anyone's secrets and i'm very kind. Some people in my school don't talk to me since I'm a scorpio and I just think it's wrong saying stuff about them that are not true. Although I don't mind , some other Scorpio's in my school feel bad and I just feel sorry for them.

Answer 9

probably because they are the most popular/desireable sign in the zodiac. and that stupid EVE chick made a music video called "whos that girl" about 5 or 6 years ago and ever sence girls have been following that big black bootylicious "oh yah baby" im a scorpio attitude. Im a gemini and ive known a very intelligent, morally inclined, absolutely gorgeous scorpio who ive had a crush on sence kindergarten and it really takes a toll on the heart and creates a heavy soul to sit back knowing i never tried hard enough, shes gone off and married now and shes probably the purist woman that was ever in my life.

Answer 10

I'm a scorpio...I am not mean i just can't control my anger.....and yes, i am also misunderstood! But it is kind of weird my friend is scorpio but he is nice, does not have anger issues and well maybe sometimes he just misunderstood due to his fast talking