Oh, dear. Try to stay in a public place with other people around at all times for at least three dates. By then, you can figure out if you like him enough to neck with him. If he doesn't like that idea, there's a good chance he's dating you for free sex, not for your own sweet self.
If it turns out that he is a nice guy, and he loves you (and you love him), you should still wait a few years before you go all the way. If he really loves you, he will wait.
My sister went out with a senior when she was a freshman. It didn't end in tears, but she seemed to think it wasn't the smartest thing she ever did. He cheated on her a lot once he went to college. Take it easy, and listen to your heart before you listen to his sweet words!
2007-04-23 13:53:33
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answered by Madame M 7
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A lot of older people date younger people because they think they can take advantage of them. If he's not such a nice guy, he might think you're naive and that you'll go along with whatever he says and be impressed with him all the time and easily manipulated.
Definitely don't stray too far from public places. If he invites you to go for a walk outside "just the two of you," then say NO. Don't let him use romance to get you to do what he wants.
2007-04-23 20:47:12
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answered by evil little girl 3
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Esh. A little creepy, but just keep it as friends. Seriously. If he's over 18 and tries to "get jiggy with yah" than you could sue him for rape with a minor. Maybe you like him, more than friends..hm. I wouldnt suggest it. There are better people out there, I mean, younger people out there. Im sure you would rather have someone with you through HS, since well, he should be leaving this June!
2007-04-23 20:47:23
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answered by Julia 3
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Watch out for: the fact that he's male, and why he isn't going for a girl his age
2007-04-23 20:45:08
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answered by buTIFFul 1
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watch out for those fast hands and smooth talking dont lwet your gaurd down if you intend to stay 'pure'
2007-04-23 20:44:09
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answered by dinkylynn 4
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watch out for him tryin to get into your pants
2007-04-23 20:43:00
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answered by ? 3
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Be careful that he doesn't try to get you to make love to him. He might tell you that if you love him then you will have sex with him.If he loves you he will not try to make you have sex with him. If you don't want to have sex with him ,then don't do it!
2007-04-23 20:46:40
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answered by John34 4
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Yes!!!
2007-04-23 22:38:00
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answered by Laila M 1
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his lies
2007-04-23 20:44:00
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answered by pas 3
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