2007-04-23 10:13:22 · 25 answers · asked by Marcie E 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only a jackass would. Some jackasses simply don't know when they have it good. While there are always issues in a marriage cheating is ALWAYS the cheater's fault and responsibility. I think you deserve much better.
2007-04-23 10:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question, as I actually have a beautiful wife and two beautiful kids. I think you'll find that in most cases (not all cases) that if wives across the country did more to keep their husband's satisfied, this might not be such an issue. I find it ironic that it's usually the women who think that 10-15 minutes of sex every month or two should be enough, are always the one's complaining about their husbands cheating or addiction to online porn!
2007-04-23 10:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are numerous reasons men cheat, including lack of love for their wife, feeling trapped, a sense of adventure, lust, boredom in the marriage.
Truth is, there is no good reason to cheat. When people get married, they are full of love and hope. Over time, when people don't work on their relationship or let their hearts wander, they begin to think about cheating.
I can't tell you why your husband / girlfriends husband cheated. I would need to know more of the details involved. All I can tell you is that for my own marriage, I work very hard with my wife to keep the love going and the lines of communication and trust open.
2007-04-23 10:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Big Super 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's a bunch of reasons, starting with, as Bill Clinton said, because you can ...
also, beauty is only one element, what does a woman do with that beauty makes a whole lot more attraction
do the kids get in the way of the the marriage and couple or are they a wonderful addition?
Is the guy getting everything he wants at home? And this just mean just sex, but it means that and a whole lot more.
Most guys feel under appreciated. Is this husband appreciated and really thanked for his hard work?
and yes, does he get everything he wants and craves at home, sexually? Most women define their sexuality more by what they won't do than by what they will do. How is this wife defined?
2007-04-23 10:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that your husband is cheating then maybe your not spending enough time with him. And I don't mean being in the same room with him. When was the last time you two went out together, without the kids. When was the last time you were seductive to him, etc. I am not saying that if he is cheating that it is right, because it is not. Don't let some other woman seduce your man, remember how you caught him.
2007-04-23 10:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a number of things....The beautiful wife doesn't get into sex anymore the wife can be beautiful all she wants but when she stops sex the husband looks else where. Or Beautiful wife takes husband for granted and other women pick up on a unhappy hubby and take advantage. Beautiful wife puts all her attention on the children husband gets none.
The list goes on.......
2007-04-23 11:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have a beautifull wife that enjoys sex keeps herself in shape I wouldnt cheat.
Reasons to cheat would be.
1. The wife lets herself go turning seriously fat (like 50 pounds plus.) You wouldnt tolerate your husband getting stinky why shouldnt be keeping as decent looks as important.
2. She is really really passive in bed and doesnt change anything about it.
3. She wants far less sex than I. You will never gonna know because thesedays men know better than try and talk it out pestering you for sex risking a divorce.
2007-04-23 10:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, I wouln't cheat even if my wife was ugly and my kids were monsters, but there better be more to my wife than just being pretty. There are lots of beautiful, gorgeous women out there that I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole. I'd go with my fat wife any day than to have to deal with one of those b1tches.
2007-04-23 10:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To experience something new, to get away from the routine, to re-live the thrill of discovering a new person... It's very easy to figure out. If you have a beautiful home in the suburbs, why go climb Mount Everest? One is not a substitute for another.
2007-04-23 10:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE A BEAUTIFUL WIFE AND KIDS DON'T MAKE FOR A RELATIONSHIP. IF SOMETHING IS LACKING IN THE RELATIONSHIP PEOPLE WILL OFTEN GO OUTSIDE TO FIND WHAT THEY ARE LACKING IN THEIR OWN RELATIONSHIP.
MOST CHEAT, MEN AND WOMEN, BECAUSE LACK OF COMMUNICATION. IF THEY COMMUNICATE WHAT THEY WANT OR NEED, THEY CAN FIND A WAY TO GET IT FROM THEIR SPOUSE NOT AN OUTSIDER.
2007-04-23 12:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by 3whiskerbiscuits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋