it out?why does chasing after it render it less approachable than concentrating on other things?
2007-04-23 09:49:17 · 6 answers · asked by Sniper of Goth 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know my goals is to have money and success. Why would I be content from it? Because it was a long hard goal to accomplish. I have been so frustrated and fearful of failing and with the thought of happening alone. If I can accomplish it it means I finally put effort & work into making it happen. Than the pay off I can finally upgrade from my current situation. Many cases people love the refresh feeling of the hard work being done that came from making it become reality!
2007-04-23 10:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♕Soulful Dreamer♕ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything striving for it and not finding it should make your goals a little more decisive. So if you got a good job, and are not happy, then you know it’s not money, or a girlfriend, and not happy, it’s not women, etc etc. Make a list of things tried and the end result of your experiences.
You may find that we are striving for what other people say should make you happy. And that most people don’t look where they should for happiness.
I think a better question is who has the absolute athority on what makes a person happy? Is there an inventor of it? If there is, surely he would know.
2007-04-23 17:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by grem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness comes from within
It is a feeling and emotion
that instilled in you
automatically and when
something good happen
or you smile it triggers
pleasure, thus
happiness!!!
No need 2 chase happiness
but you do things 2 plez
yourself and others and
happiness just
becomes a part of you.
You are not
chasing it you or
obtaining it!!
Your success, your worth
your happiness, your
well being are all set
by your own standards!
What you consider happiness
I might not, it's 2 each their
own.
2007-04-23 17:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is a choice, its not an easy choice especially when things go to crap, but happiness is still there, available, waiting to be selected from all the other emotions available like anger, frustration, sorrow, etc.
People are addicted to the euphoria of happiness, but there is much to learn in other states of being as well.
We seldom learn valuable life lessons in times of happiness.
2007-04-23 17:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lucian Black 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it does not come in pure form, it is diluted with many other factors. As a result, one must go about obtaining or seeking and finding it through a 2nd party, if you will. Therefore, it is a bi-product.
2007-04-23 17:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's not a physical thing that you can simply find and take. Each person will gain happiness through different means, but since it's not something that can exist by itself, you can't directly get it.
2007-04-23 16:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋