He was released from prison for armed robery in Vegas just a few months ago. He's going to every salon I've ever worked in or might want to work at and slandering me. The people that know of him don't listen, but if you don't know him, he's very convincing. He claims he's a strattegest, Godlike, and a spiritual warrior. He's not in reality. He's huge. He looks like Dog the Bounty Hunter, but younger and all of his hair is long. He's obssesed with me and the fact that I rejected him. He tried to become bestfriends with my brother and tried to minipulate him. He calls all my friends using selling vitamins as his excuse for calling. He's stalking me and doesn't care that I know. I called the police. He doesn't care. His brother shot two cops. His mom has esp. He practices nature majic and is convinced he will be my spouce one day. I've been ignoring him. When people tell me what he says about me, I just shake my head. Is my lack of reaction making the problem worse?
2007-04-23 09:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by Indigo 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Restraining order.
2007-04-23 10:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is go to the police. Apparently this guy is psycho and the situation will just get worse if you don't at least try and get the law involved. This guy seems potentially dangerous and if you don't get something done he could do something to you and/or your family. Trust me...I've been in a situation like yours and it does and WILL get worse!
Also, since he just got released from prison he's most likely on probation...if he does anything to violate that he goes right back to jail/prison...which is good for you in a way. So get a restraining order and good luck to you.
2007-04-23 17:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you said he's not afraid of the law, but I think every state has a stalking law now, and he's surely violating it. If he's fresh out of jail, he may have a probation officer that would be interested in hearing your story. Other than that, I don't know what to tell you to do without taking the law into your own hands, which is obviously a bad idea. I really hate those totally unafraid of anything types.
2007-04-23 16:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might think of dating a cop instead. That way he would have an excuse to use his stun gun or........The problem with this is you might trade one bad guy for another with a badge. You could try a restraining order but many have died with these anyway. I guess you'll just be another statistic and he'll be on Americas Most Wanted. I remember a guy like this in Wisconsin. When he disappeared in the woods no one would volunteer to look for him. I guess it was some sort of hunting accident.
2007-04-23 17:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. This guy is crazy. Call the cops REPEATEDLY until they do something. Get him locked up for aggravated harassment.
Also, please do not blame this on his being a Pagan. Most Pagans are loving caring people. Just remember that there are crazy people in all faiths. Weren't the founding principles of the KKK citing Christianity as their main motivation? It happened to the best of them. I'm a Pagan and so are many of my friends and we are some of the most caring people around. Don't stereotype us all according to this one %!@# head!!!
2007-04-24 15:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reaction is good. People will see him for what he is.
Most folks do not take "spiritual warriors" seriously.
But just in case, buy some pepper spray and do not be shy about calling cops on him.
Consider moving away if you can.
2007-04-23 16:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why did you even let this guy be your boyfriend in the first place?
You best bet will be the police unless you can afford personal body guards. Doesn't matter if he's afraid of the police or not, they outnumber him and have guns.
2007-04-23 16:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order plus get an apartment right next to th epolice station.
You need to get him off the street - and that will do it.
The other possibility is the desert trip, where you invite him out to a ranch he just sort of doesn't come back . . .
2007-04-23 19:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by emagidson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lure him into the desert and ......
2007-04-23 16:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Damian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋