Can you make someone physically attracted to you’?

Answer 1

No......you cannot make anyone like you or fancy you if they do not....and trying or forcing the issue will only end in tears!

Answer 2

It will always be their decision, and their preferences are part of this.

However, we can influence others. Look and behave differently and we can get different results. I lost quite alot of weight and I now get interest from people in differing measures to previously. I know people who have changed their style and gotten different results, some with the same people. Whilst people are attracted to both someone's inner and outer qualities, we have alot of influence over both of these areas.

Think about it - has a partner been more attracted to you when you've dressed or behaved differently? The same would be true for someone who wasn't your partner, if you exhibited more of the qualities that they found attractive. You could go higher up their scale of interest.

Now I'm not saying that you could turn someone with zero interest into a 10 / 10 just by changing hair style, there are serious limitations. Many people will probably just never do it for others.

What I am saying is that you have influence. And our behaviour is flexible too. If there is something that others find unattractive about the way that we behave, then this can be altered. If the new pattern is more attractive, we may have opened the doors for someone to find us more physically attractive too.

Hope these quick thoughts are clear. Good luck! Rob

Answer 3

Try by making yourself attractive to them. Show them that you have what they lack: People usually admire others who have what they don't. A person lacking self-confidence is attracted to, and admires a confident person; the weak is attracted to the strong and the coward is attracted to the courageous and brave. Your goal should be to find what your friends (or anyone else you with to admire you) lack, then try to show them that you have it. Even if you don't currently possess this something, you should do your best to aquire it, then put it on display for people to admire.
If you don’t know what they miss: The first point leads us to the second point, what if you don’t know what those people lack? That's not really a problem, because, statistically, most people are not brave, not very self-confident and not strong. All you have to do is build up these qualities in yourself then market yourself to others.
Use the law of attraction: People are usually attracted to people with whom they share common interests, so the more interests you have in common, the more people you will attract and the higher the possibility of being admired(see the law of attraction).
Success Having succeeded in anything will probably lead to people admire you greatly since success is something that eludes many. You may also find people jealous and envious of this success and may make a few enemies in the process, but this will be far outweighed by the many others who will admire you.
Position yourself well in their minds What is the first thing that comes to someone’s mind when he hears your name? Will it be “respect” , “honesty”, “strength”, “will power” or will it be “loser”? Positioning yourself is simply identifying yourself with a certain image in the minds of others

Answer 4

You can make anyone physically attracted to you because it is simply a chemical reaction in their brain. The right chemical can make the right reaction occur.
However, if they are attracted to you, it doesn't mean much. They may be attracted physically but they might not act on any of their impulses if you are repulsive.

Answer 5

I think sometimes when you're not initially attracted to someone,if you get to know them & become attracted to their personality then over time you can find them more attractive physically as well as part of the package which makes up the whole person.

Answer 6

Sometimes when you touch the hair of the back of someone's head they can get chills down their spin.... Sometimes even aroused.

But you cant make someone physically attracted to you.

Answer 7

If you find out the type of things that attract them, you could perhaps attract them more by adapting your style/look.

Answer 8

rub there trousers hard enough and I'm sure any man would be "attracted" as you put it.

have i missed the point to this question?

Answer 9

I can - I ahve a thing I do with my eyes - almost 100$ effective!

Answer 10

yep, you can...go to the gym, purchase a body (it may take months, but it will work) and you entire life will change...you won't care about the one you are chasing now, too many will be chasing you!