My boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and one day, but he hasn't held my hand or kissed me yet. We are both 13 and we have been inseperable for 2 years, and he finally asked me out on March 22. Is he just embarrassed or something? Should I grab his hand first? I mean, the kissing part, I don 't mind. I can understand that. I don't want to kiss someone right away anyway. But what about holding hands? Should we just keep it on the low key right now, or should I grab his hand or what? I'm just confused. Thanks!
2007-04-23 08:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
naaahhh he is just shy. don't rush it honey because once it starts you will be wishing that it would slow down.
i mean it.
i have a 12 year old son! LOL and he is shy. he likes girls but is very shy.
dont' rush it.
you have a lifetime ahead of you.
2007-04-23 08:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it why not it the 20th century there is no need 2 wait 4 the guy 2 make the first move now a days. maybe hes shy and does not want 2 make a fool of him self by makeing a wrong move! "GO 4 IT GRAB THAT HAND!!!!!" the kissing part will come on its own latter! no rush. take it slow. :)
2007-04-23 15:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's anything like I was at that age, then he's very bashful about holding hands and kissing. Go ahead and "LET" your hand fall into his, and I'll bet he will take over from there. Good luck
2007-04-23 15:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! If it's something you want and he's not doing it then take control. I don't know about all guys, but some guys do like it when chicks make the first move. If he has a problem with it tell him to talk about it with you. You need to share your feelings with him. Maybe you're sending mixed signals to him without realizing it.
2007-04-23 15:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by kirstyn_x_duhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are 13. He's probably shy. Grab for the hand.
But no kissing or touching yet you're both way too young.
2007-04-23 15:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Formerly known as Jen F. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it! iu rememberen i was with this particular girl when i was 13, i was actually pretty confident back them ( actually.. . way too confident) and we'd hold hands an stuff all the time. but now i could see myself being so forward/
I'm trying to say, he's probs shy.that all. trust me you don't know what he's thinking, so just go 4 it.
take care
2007-04-23 15:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rambo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to get out of a stalemate like situation, one of you, has to take some DISCRETE initiative, within normal social limits.
2007-04-23 15:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab him and kiss the kid! He is prolly just shy. GO RED SOX!
2007-04-23 15:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Awww! :)
Kid, all I can tell ya is, keep it fun & very simple. Just take his hand. It's Ok. Believe me....
2007-04-23 15:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Fonzie T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is nervouse wreck!!!
I know i was with my first gf!
Hold his hand, he'll like it!
2007-04-23 15:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by The Con 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋