he wasd only keeping me around because he was still in the closet......
2007-04-23 07:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it's just one of those dreams. do you think he's gay? you're the only one who can really decide on that.
2007-04-23 07:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. When I was married, I once had a dream that I was having sex with my cousin (I know, EW!) It certainly didn't mean I was more attracted to my cousin than I was to my husband. QUITE the contrary, really. :-D I also had a dream once that my husband cheated on me with my sister, even though I knew he was faithful and really couldn't stand my sister. It's just a dream. First, as I'm sure you probably know, anti-depressants can greatly affect sex drive, so that may be something worth talking to her doctor about. A LOT of women feel less desirable, and also desire their spouse less, after having children. For women, sex is an incredibly emotional experience, and (at least this was the case with me) it was hard to switch from being super-mom to feeling sexy. There are some things that you can do to help her make that transition, like taking over some of the stuff around the house and childcare so she can have some time to herself to get "in the mood" and doing the little things you did when you first got together to let her know she's desirable and loved. As far as the dream goes, don't put too much thought into it (and encourage her to do the same). Just about every married person at some point or another has a crush on another person, or has sex dreams about someone other than their spouse. It doesn't mean they're being unfaithful or that it's an indicator that things are wrong in the relationship. In a way, considering your wife's dip in sex drive, you could consider it a good thing, that she obviously hasn't lost ALL interest in sex, and it's not like she was extremely turned on because the guy WASN'T you (it just so happened to be, and she felt bad about it even in the dream). Work on what you've got, but don't overthink things either.
2016-05-17 06:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's true to the extent of a facet of his personality/character. Would suggest you don't probe it or him. Accept him, don't discuss the matter with him, and if that interferes with your requirements for marriage so be it. Keep your own council.
2007-04-23 07:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that your bf is not making love to you now a days or he doesnt seem interested that's why you are having all these feelings.
2007-04-23 07:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by pushker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you had a dream. And maybe you're just a little insecure.
2007-04-23 07:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dreams usually turn out the other way round, so i wouldn't worry.. and it was only a dream.
2007-04-23 07:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by white rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that your bf is hiding something from you?
2007-04-23 08:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋