Were you or was someone you know sexually assaulted or victim of a similar crime in the past 20 years?

Question

Were you or was someone you know sexually assaulted or victim of a similar crime in the past 20 years?

In retrospect, what were all the warning signs, or other aspects of the perpetrator that were, or now seem like they should have been, suspicious?

My friend's sibling had trust violated by a person in authority, and I want to do everything I can to make sure this doesn't happen to anyone else.

My plan is to put your answers together to create a personality profile that I will use to make a quiz on http://QuizFarm.com . By answering a series of questions about anyone that you know, you can determine the level of risk the individual carries in relation to others and find the help you may need to take action if necessary.

Thank you very much for your participation in this truly life-saving project.

Answer 1

If what you stated for the reason for asking is true it is a noble cause. But must warn you that without a lot of special education and controlled studies your results will be dangerous. If you make just one mistake you form might show that a person had a tendance for some sexual offese and all he did is answer the question wrong.
These things really do need to be left to the professionals. You couls damage and ruin lives of people without even knowing that you are doing it.

There are already profiles that exist to identify preditors. There are restricted for use by law enforcement, not you.

Answer 2

My daughter was molested by my now ex-husband, who was her step-father. That was about 6 years ago and I still beat myself up about it because I never picked up on anything, and to this day I cannot look back and "see" anything. The only thing that I can think of is that my daughter began to become very moody, but I chalked it up to her being 16 and that's how teenagers are. I asked her later why she didn't come to me (she told a friend who in turn told an adult). She said, "I just didn't think you would understand". She knew I loved him very much and she didn't want to destroy that. I think he used that very fact....I think he felt that if she told, either I wouldn't believe her or I would chose to stay with him and give her to her father. WRONG!!! It was the most horrible, traumatic thing we have ever been thru. It was, and continues to be, a very difficult up-hill struggle for the both of us. We have trust issues with other people. I think it would be great if you could come up with something like this, but I think the previous answer of it being used by professionals is good advice. Perhaps you could help develop it, though. Good Luck....