sometimes my man soesnt ejaculate even after trying very hard...my vagina gets sore but he doesnt ejaculate.he feels depressed when he doesnt ejaculate....but he tells me he enjoyed the sex. can a man be satisfied even when he doesnt ejaculate?? what r the sure signs that a man is satisfied during sex?? plz answer
2007-04-23 05:37:42 · 10 answers · asked by tobrina 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sure we enjoy it, even if we don't finish. The whole process is pleasurable.
Lots of circumcised men can't climax from intercourse alone--he may need to masturbate at the end in order to finish. If that happens, it doesn't mean that YOU are doing anything wrong. It's just that the poor guy's equipment was damaged when he was an infant through no fault of his. He's doing the best he can.
If he says he's having a good time, why not just believe him?
2007-04-23 05:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men can be satisfied just from the activity before having an orgasm. Some men can be satisfied by their partner having an orgasm. It's up to the man whether he is "satisfied". If he says he is, he is. There are no "signs." You want him to purr and wag his tail or something? Meanwhile, use lots of lubricant so you don't get sore and can last longer. Maybe your guy just needs more time (and less pressure) to reach orgasm and ejaculate. Or the above answers may have nailed it: he's just used to the excessive stimulation he gets from porn and masturbating.
2007-04-23 07:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The totally sure I know all men are completly satisfied is giving him head. I bet if you do that he will ejaculate for you.Then he will be up for whatever you have for him next like , role play, damanamtrix, or just a three-some.Go to the store and try buying some toys before you go too overboard.If, all of this doesn't work its mental(mind).
2007-04-23 05:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by CHRYS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the same way. It makes me feel inadequate. He usually will if I do some oral sex or if I masturbate him. I can't help wondering what's wrong with me....or him. Plus I think he prefers masturbation (himself) than having sex. I believe he's into porn more than he says. Overall, our relationship is deteriorating. I've tried talking about it....but he just get's mad and says I shouldn't bring it up because it just makes it worse. We've been together five years. And sex is next to nothing. I'm tired of it all. It will be over soon. It's more like we're friends. Although, I take medications which lessen by libido alot. So its probably why I've lasted it out all this time. Nevertheless, it's getting not worth it.
2007-04-23 06:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orgasm is the final release of sexual energy. Tantric sex is about delaying or avoiding this, so as to experience the build up and intensity of sex.
Yes, men can and do enjoy sex without orgasm, though many men believe they HAVE to orgasm in order to complete the sex act. This is not true.
I'd suggest a tantric love-making course, or a book on the subject, to learn more about what a man truly feels when having sex.
2007-04-23 05:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes a man can enjoy sex without ejaculating, but if this persists he should see a doctor because not being able to ejaculate is not normal, unless you do it more than 3 or 4 times a day or something
2007-04-23 05:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by brian b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that there are more and more comments about guys
that appear to have masturbated to the point that they can't have normal sex with a female. I am begining to think that girls
finding these guys should just move on, Chalk it up to SOHK
2007-04-23 08:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some foreplay to get him more in the mood. Watch some porno together to get new ideas. Talk dirty to eachother while in the midst of things. Don't rush into having an orgasm. Take your time and enjoy eachother.
2007-04-23 05:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go with tlbrown4. She nailed it..:)
2007-04-23 06:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you allow email?
2007-04-23 05:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Vahid 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋