did you really? Or does it come back and bite you if something triggers a memory and the feelings are still raw after you really thought they were gone?
2007-04-23 05:24:24 · 9 answers · asked by JenJen 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's not me, my friends! I'm okay..really. Hugs.
2007-04-23 05:51:11 · update #1
It's hard to let something go because in your mind you could forget about it for a while ,but your heart still holds on the emotional attachment of it all.
Yes it does come back to bite you. Its just so sad about how these things work out sometimes. Its not biting you to hurt you even though it may feel that way.
Now that I am thinking maybe those are signs that even that person is no longer in your life that they are there to help you just keep the memory alive. Somtimes our brain chooses to memorize certain aspect about a person. Atleast the memory and the soul is still there.
We all can feel your pain.
2007-04-23 05:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes those awful memories do have a way of coming back. Here is something I used to help me when that would happen. I would visualize a stop sign in my minds eye and say if I were home alone out loud "STOP! No more will you torment me!" If I was not alone of course I'd think these words. It sounds a little silly but it does help! Trust me on this one! The reappearance of those dreadful memories will be further and further apart because you will be training yourself that you will not think about them.Good luck!
2007-04-23 12:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the situation, sometimes the memories bring back feelings that are still just a bit raw. But remember....you are strong and you have many blessings in your life. Life brings many lessons to learn and sometimes they leave a bitter after taste. Just bask in the wonderful things in your life and try not to focus on the bitter memories. (HUGS) ;o)
2007-04-23 12:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... good question
okay, honey... I'm trying to let it go, but it keeps coming back and haunting me just when I think I'll never deal with it again... and yes, the feelings are still raw
sometimes I don't even realize why I'm feeling so raw and ragged and then I recognize the date and remember that it's the anniversary of a bad event, so even the dates hit my subconscious
2007-04-23 15:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything I have ever thot I let go has somehow resurfaced at one time or another...maybe I need shock treatments or a lobotomy!:oP
2007-04-23 15:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i say i've let it go, that means i'm trying really hard to let it go haha
2007-04-23 22:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never let anything go, I let everything stew.
2007-04-23 12:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by CrazyFarmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do we really let "it" go....just lays there stagnate sometimes
2007-04-23 12:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do experience p.t.s.s., it seems that the experience of much hurt emotions & all that,''''''i think i'm healing'''', & then,someone who i think should'nt matter all that much'', seems to open the wound'', was thinking about all that earlier this a.m., how much i want to trust''', but,,,,,,,,,,,,,very rare that i do honestly,/..,,''''
2007-04-23 15:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by wildfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋