Are you??????

Question

Are you a touchy feely person
or someone who only shows affection once in a while?

Is you S/O the same or different??
How do you cope??

I am a very touchy person and my honey bear is not. He comes from a family that does not show affection.
Somes times i have to remember he is not that way and i never push myself on him if he pulls away.

i do J

even if it is a hand on the arm or shoulder

and i have found that when we talk to someone we look them directly in the eye

for the entire chat not just on and off

Answer 1

I am very touchy feely and my wife is not, sometimes it bothers me but I try to remember its not all her fault, that's just how she is.

Answer 2

I'm a touchy feely person and alot of times the men I'm with aren't sometimes it's frustrating especially when we're alone and then they're all groping!! Why can't they show some affection,just holding hands in public??

Answer 3

I'm really touchy-feely. I never have anyone pull away...maybe I just don't let them! :) Come 'ere....lemmee give you a hug! Total body hugs and letting the love flow into them. Nothing like it. I also touch on the arm and stuff when having a conversation. I'll bet you do, too! Long live the touchy-feely people! Literally...we'll live longer.

Answer 4

I'm not really touchy feely. My wife is more touchy feely than me, but not too much. I actually don't mind it if she's touchy feely with me. It does bother me when others are. I don't hug much and never kiss on the cheek when I meet someone. I might "man hug" with a friend (shaking hands while bumping chests).
Other than that, though, I don't touch people other than my wife. When others do, I'm a little uncomfortable, but I deal with it.

Answer 5

I am a touchy, feeling person most of the time but I do not like it when someone other then the object of my affection comes into my space. There is a woman at work who, everytime she passes by me or anyone else, she touches me or whoever. It drives me crazy. I already told her nicely not to do it but she continues. I guess I will have to be more adamant about it and I don't want to hurt her feelings but I am feeling like I am going to slap her next time she crosses into my space.

Answer 6

I'm not touchy feely and my gf is. She drives me nuts! I always push her away when I'm trying to sleep. Then she gets all mad. It's not that I don't like her... I just want my own personal space.

Answer 7

I'm very lovey dovey and physical contact is very important to me. My honey shows physical affection, but not as much as I do. Usually- not always, I'm the one who initiates the touchy feely moments, and he joins in by returning the affection to me. Like last night we were on the beach and he sat in betwen my legs on the sand and snuggled up on me laying his head on my chest, and it was so so so sweet. We just held one another and talked.

Answer 8

I am not very touchy feely although I do give my daughter lots of hugs & kisses. She is the only one really.

Answer 9

It's wasome that you understand that most people don't and take it as if they don't love them. My husband is touchy feely and I'm not (for various reasons) but he doesn't understand and thinks I'm not attracted to him. So I have to put that extra effort in just for him ya know. Wors aren't enough sometimes and I don't ever want him to think I don't love him.

Answer 10

im not touchy feely at all either is any of my family. i hate being touched, its just the way i was raised but i hug my kids all the time.