Do you and your spouse or your significant other argue?

Question

What do you argue about the most?
How often do you argue?
How in depth are your arguements?
Do you ever feel you can't take it and you want to get out, then after cooling off you don't want to leave?

Answer 1

we argue very often although he oftens keeps quite, simpe and stupids things like....not picking my calls on time, and not showing much love as i expect often cause our arguements. most times i just want to quit

Answer 2

If anyone says they don't argue, they're lying.

Probably the one issue we argue the most about is money matters.

We don't argue that often anymore, we disagree with each other probably weekly, but often agree to disagree. We probably disagree with each other once or twice a month, at least, maybe a little more. I don't really keep track.

Mostly just discussion, although our arguements at times will turn into a good 'ol fight.

Yes, I have felt that I can't take him anymore, and he's felt the same about me. Then, after we've cooled off, we both realize we want to stay in our marriage. Which is why you never make important decisions while you're upset.

Answer 3

Yes, we do argue on occasion.
What do you argue about the most? Different things
How often do you argue? We have little tiffs pretty often, but out and out arguing...?....maybe 3-4 times a month.
How in depth are your arguements? Not too bad. Sometimes we won't talk for a day or two, but that is dh's choice, not mine.
Do you ever feel you can't take it and you want to get out, then after cooling off you don't want to leave? No.

Answer 4

I'm not married, but have been in numerous relationships which all failed probably because we never argued. The men that I have dated have all been too afraid of conflict. Well, lets face it they have all been spineless. I don't like to argue and fight any more than the next person, but at least it would be an attempt at communication. The only time I have raised my voice to a significant other was at the end of the relationship. I was upset because he wanted to end it over a lot of little things that built up over time and he never said anything about it to me. Lack of communication was the reason for the argument.

Answer 5

We bump heads about every thing under the sun.
We argue about something ALL the time, (most of which revolves around his drinking and always being broke).
There are times when we won't speak for 3 or 4 days at a time, and I'm more at peace with that distance.
I consider us as friends (very loose terminology). He thinks we are in a relationship. I think mostly because he knows a lot of women wouldn't put up with his crap.

I know he's been with other women. And he knows that I know.

So since I don't have any reason to trust him or the need to be with him, I'm very open to finding someone that will make my heart skip a beat when I see them.

Answer 6

We really don't argue at all.

This is due to a number of things. We tend to think alike, anyway. We trust each other to be doing what we think to be best, at the time, for our family. We respect each other as individuals, knowing that our partner is just as human & potential to make a mistake as we are.

Our biggest 'fights' are usually either due to misunderstandings caused by one of us feeling bad about ourselves, which leads us to question the respect, trust & love we have. The other will see that & begin to question it all as well. It stews silently for a bit, until someone breaks through it all, starting a conversation that ends in understanding again.

We also tend to disagree about driving issues. But, those are usually quelled by the 'mutual respect' thing. If I think he's driving too close to the car ahead, I'll try to remember that that is *my issue*, not his. I know that he's never had an accident in a moving vehicle, so it's ridiculous for me to expect him to do things my way. He feels & reacts the same when it comes to my more cautious/slow driving style.

Answer 7

EVERY couple argues at some point! Most of the time when me and my husband argue its about his ex-wife she has tried to cause problems but its nothing you cant over come. No matter how much you love a person you will eventually fight and have disagreements it happens to the best of us. you will get past it. But no I never wan to leave i love him way too much to ever have that thought cross my mind.

Answer 8

My husband and I rarely ever argue. If we do it's usually that one of us is stressed about something and in a bad mood due to that. Usually it lasts no more than a few minutes before an apology and explanation ends it all. I have never wanted to leave my husband.

Answer 9

Of course we do. Usually it is over something really stupid. We have a argument usually once a week or so, nothing major though. In the early days of marriage every argument was reason enough to divorce but as we matured we realize we would never want that. We worked hard to have a good marriage and it was well worth it. We have been married over 36 years and are totally happy.....

Answer 10

My partner and I rarely argue. We usually diffuse the situation immediately by talking and calming the other one down.

Having said that, to argue within a relationship isn't necessarily a bad thing...if you argue the "right" way, it's actually quite healthy.

Answer 11

Arguments are healthful yet no longer the continuous ones. as long as there is admire from the two facets, there is not any threat on the relationship. How frequently? relies upon diverse human beings will prefer diverse cycles ;) the utmost i think of is couple or thrice each week, something greater beneficial than which will bring about a chilly relationship, and that isn't what we want ideal ;)