he tooks me and my kids on but my kids always seem to upset him..( u know what kids are like) im 50 but look 35 Im fairly good looking and of course I have 50 yr old health issues..re womanly parts..which he makes fun of..however, only whan i am relaxing does he tend to want to come home from a party,, not that i go out often as i usually work..when i dont want to go out he wants to stay..we are always at odds..Ive put up with his depression and controlling ways as i married him...hes a good man meaning he works hard and he cares for the home and i am confortable.. but he runs it like a tight ship...and orders me around like a kid..ok i wanna leaveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee but im 50 and not that financial.
2007-04-23 03:41:07 · 6 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So you are only with him for his money? At your age you should be earning your own money and supporting your own kids... If you don't then you deserve to be treated like a child, you are acting like one!
2007-04-23 03:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what they call between a rock and a hard place. Think of life both ways. You said you usually work. Do you want a free life without him or do you want to settle with things like they are? I might want to stay or might not. It would depend on how I felt. So how do you picture both ways and which way feels the best? Neither one is the perfect choice.
2007-04-23 10:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's very controlling and you should never let any human being have that much control over you. I wonder about your self-esteem. Chances are you could have had any man you wanted...why him? I believe you are in a codependent relationship. There is a book that you could read called, "Love is a choice". "They teach that the codependent has an obsession to repeat the family pain of his childhood and that he is locked into certain rigid family roles". It helped me tremendously to first love myself. It showed me that I was dependent upon others to fill my half full love tank. Give it a read...
2007-04-23 14:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by inhis_image 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out. Where there is a will, there is a way.
2007-04-23 10:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety life is to short not to be happy. you don't wont to be sixty and saying i wish i would have left. I'm sure you could get a job and make it .
2007-04-23 10:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by samuelmassingill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure what your question was. I guess I would recommend counseling, or contact his doctor with your concerns.
2007-04-23 10:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋