Stupid is as stupid does. In your last post you started the "ugly" flinging and what goes around comes around, so it goes.
And as you have noticed this is a Marriage & Divorce site, people here are either married wanting advice or divorced wanting advice. Your neither here, nor there with your question....but rather trying to ask people who've already been down one road or the other what their thoughts, opinions, or advice are about your question.
Either way, your previous post was thoughtlessly worded and almost nearly oozed of Glenn Close in "fatal attraction". Take it or leave it, it's your choice, but you asked for it.
2007-04-23 03:11:24
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answered by Anonymous
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well, since i know the situation and agree with most of these people (leave, you have both been unhappy for a long time), i know when i finally broke free of the man i was "stuck with" for yrs,, it felt like a million pounds of pressure was lifted, i started smiling again and realized that i am important and he did NOT deserve me. he is still to this day a miserable person, but i am happier than i have ever been.. i guess what im saying is, yes, it will be rough trying to get on your feet at first, but you are a strong person and you can do it... anyone who knows you would say the same thing... the rest of the family will adjust.. mine did.. you have been miserable for way too long, he's not going to change, you should know that after all these yrs.... just leave, let yourself find happiness again someday... it will happen, i promise :) and for the kids... all the yrs of arguing and tension around the house has prob done more harm then it would if you got a divorce, when your kids see you smiling again and feeling better about yourself, it will make them feel good..(even when ya think they dont care, they really do, i learned that from mine also) i hope that helps a little :)
2016-05-17 04:52:44
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answered by ? 3
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that hard you see there a lot of people on here that do not take this Q&A for real so just like asking stupid question or giveing stupid answer. some just do so they can get there 2 point and move on to the next question and not think about what that person was asking. but hay there are so real good poeple out her willing to help if they do see you question. I do no that yahoo has started the my network you help out people like you to find better answer with less stupid one. Good Luck.
2007-04-23 02:54:07
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answered by celticdragon 6
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These answers you probably can't avoid because there are a lot of people out there who are just waiting for the chance to send somebody a zinger.
Just ignore these answers the same way you would ignore a gnat. Their minds are about the same as the mind of a gnat, SMALL.
2007-04-23 02:53:10
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answered by don n 6
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Speak for yourself. I don't do it for money, I do it for love. I don't know about the outside package, but on the inside you are a very ugly person with nothing but rage and hatred spewing out of you.
A marriage certificate doesn't necessarily mean love, but neither does him sleeping with you and his wife. It just means he's a dog and he'll screw anything that will let him. Just because he's decided to stick it in you doesn't mean he loves you either. If he did, you wouldn't have to set it up so his wife will catch you, he would have left her already.
2007-04-23 02:53:31
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answered by Anonymous
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there really is no way of avoiding them, you just post your question and hope that you receive answers from good responsible people.one other thing do not get frustrated and return their insults because sometimes these are just done by people who dont understand the meaning of privacy and anonymosity(whatever, hope you get my point).
2007-04-23 02:51:14
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answered by lady k 1
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Sounds like somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed!!! Go have a coffee and calm down!!
2007-04-23 02:52:34
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answered by Lori F 6
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Feel the need to vent did we!!
I know what you mean, but yahoo answers in not the best place to ask a question if you only want serious replies.
2007-04-23 02:48:13
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answered by cpj79 3
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I've come across some real yahoos on Yahoo. You can report them if it gets to you. Somehow I imagine it may be little unsupervised kids making noise. Have a beautiful day. In time it won't get to you as much anymore.
2007-04-23 02:49:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop posting questions. This is all for fun and if you dont like the answers you are getting stop asking questions.
Try to do some answering instead.
2007-04-23 02:57:29
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answered by Anonymous
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