Insults to personal appearance, terrible sexual innuendoes, dirty jokes... I'm 24 - help?
2007-04-23 00:31:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
we're a perfect match.
2007-04-23 00:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, keep thinking about the following:
There is nothing LESS sexy than a man acting like that. I would say that most women I know would NEVER date or sleep with a man who she has heard say demeaning things about women at all, much less insulting her directly or saying crude things publicly. This means always, not just in the company of women.
Think about some famous men who are desired by women. Mostly I would say they are laid-back, respectful, and they LIKE women. If George Clooney or someone like that started saying crude things, it would be all over for him. I hate to use celebrity examples, but think about how Brad Pitt describes Angelina Jolie. If you want people to want to be around you, you have to build them up and make them feel good about themselves - those are the kinds of men women want to be around.
The last thing is, when you act like an idiot toward women, many people recognize it is because you are uncomfortable and/or insecure - and THAT is the opposite of sexy. When you say nasty things, are you doing it to amuse other men? If that is not the audience you want to attract, you should stop it immediately.
Good luck.
2007-04-23 07:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by justagirl33552 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what George Castanza on Seinfeld did . . . the complete opposite of what his impluse was.
Everyime you fell like saying something bad, try saying a compliment.
If that doesn't work, the start hanging out with people who aren't offended by your personality
2007-04-23 07:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by yuntaa_dba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24? Your behaviour would be embarrassing to a 14 yr old! Time to grow up! And of course you can help it!
2007-04-23 07:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obviously in need of self confidence,and self control...Your just using your your "grossness" as a crutch and mechanism to unattract women as your unsure of how to deal with them..work on your social skills and you'll be fine eventually..Women shouldn't frighten you,afterall they are nervous around men as well in most cases..=)
2007-04-23 07:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by legendary~cool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a bit shy and lacking in self confidence, sounds like you could be, just try a bit of self control and be yourself, people aren't impressed with others who try to be something they are not.
2007-04-23 08:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you feel shy or u just dont no haw to respond to the opposit sex persnly derty jokes r fun but others may get put off by them try listing to the gerls then ask basik qwestons
2007-04-23 07:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think twice before you open your mouth and say the exact opposite of what you were going to say (or say nothing at all).
2007-04-23 07:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you recognize your faults, then what's the problem? Not trying to be insulting but, grow up.
2007-04-23 07:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Hieroglyphic Graffitti! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a woman then, not a girl
2007-04-23 08:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by twit head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like girls very much, do you? Get really used to being alone.
2007-04-23 07:34:13 · answer #11 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋