i like a guy, but i love another, neither know i exist, how do i make them notice me?
2007-04-21 22:47:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Walk past them without noticing them, Talk with the guys who are his friends but not with him (any of the two), Try to look attractive but decent. Basically ignore them as you don`t have any interest in them and see what happens. they i`ll come running to you. This formula works like magic. Believe me try once...
2007-04-21 23:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone... that doesn't know you... that's like walking into a grocery store... and seeing the most attractive thing in the store... buying it... taking it home... the realizing... that Hmmm... maybe frozen liver on a stick (livercicle)... really isn't all that great...
Slow down... take a deep breath... or two... introduce yourself... yess.. I know... but guys... really appreciate confidence... and ultimately..any relationship that starts with honesty... has a chance to thrive...
so... walk up... hold out your hand... and introduce yourself... and be honest... say something like..."hi I'm _ _ _ _ _ _ I'm ahhh not seeing anyone...at the moment... maybe... I mean if your not seeing anyone either... we could ... go to the mall and hang together... maybe get to know each other...
Honesty... and the direct approach... IS the best course of action... naturally...it's also the quickest course to rejection... so what... unless these are the only two guys in town... isn't it better to know now... to like sample that package to see if it is a "livercicle."
2007-04-22 06:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by alex b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right, you are going to have to makle them notice you. You did not say in what particular sense that you 'know' these guys so I am going to have to be generic.
1) Ask one of them a question. For example: Excuse me, I have to buy my nephew/cousin a birthday present and he is about your age. I don't know what he likes - what can you suggest?
This way you ask a question that has legs. He will (hopefully) share his wisdom with you and you should be able to find some stuff about him.
2) Being noticed is not what you think it means. You need to focus more on a 'real' kind of love. Your problem sounds a bit like infatuation rather than love, but I could be wrong.
Try to focus on the life you have, that you can touch and influence rather than idealised crushes.
3) Just take a deep breath and talk to them. There is nothing shameful in being knocked back by somebody who you like the look of. It happens to all of us.
Go get them!!!
2007-04-22 06:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Duncan Disorderly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm how can you love someone that doesnt know u exist . i gather u would not have spent time with him either. and then u claim u like another........ maybe they are just crushes and as how to get either one of them to know that you exist well. just go up and introduce yourself . you never know what will come of this.but u should work out which one you like . spend time with both as friends and see what happens after that
2007-04-22 05:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've gotta be yourself. as a 19 yr old girl i know what you're going thru. but i gotta ask you, how you do love someone that doesnt know you exist. im not tryin to rag on you or nothing but i think its more of an infatuation. what you need to do about these guys is see which one is worth your time. If they dont notice you then they arent worth it.
2007-04-22 05:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rethink your feelings once. You cant love anyone until you know them. Anyway, I suggest you talk to both and get to know both and see your interests, etc. And till then, ask yourself what the definition of love is for you.
2007-04-22 06:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be blod tell them you like them, don't throw yourself at them but ask each one his honest opinion about who they think you should go out with because you are bored and want to hang with him cuz you like him if he is intrested in you he will say yes if not he will say no then you will have to move on at least you will know.
2007-04-22 06:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Since your non-existent to both find someone new.
2007-04-22 05:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go and talk to each one of them and get to know them.
You can't love someone unless you know them
2007-04-22 05:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, clear your mind. Which do you love, then change your look, flip your hair when he comes near you, and give him a seductive smile...
2007-04-22 05:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by emma l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋