hi i just met a girl and i think im starting to like her but i allready have a girlfreind and iv ben wahanting her for 4 years but then this other girl came along and shes just like me just female i dont know wether to go for her or my cerrent girlfreind help please
2007-04-21 22:41:55 · 17 answers · asked by broken souls 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well you should ask yourself if the girl you met recently is you true half. the one you've been expecting. If you and your girlfriend have a great relationship and you thing that breaking up with her would hurt you both very much you must stay with her. but if you think that the second girl is made for you and your relationship would be ideal then i would recommend you to go for her...(but only if you are SURE!!)
2007-04-21 22:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nick E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl you wanted for 4 years is just like an unaccomplished dream. We all have unaccomplished dream time to time in life. You have chosen to move on with your current girlfriend, the one 4 years ago is already a past. Your current girlfriend has walked some distance with you already, you know clearly how well it can work out, and I believe it is yielding positive results as you are in a dilemma. Even starting with the girl you like for 4 years, you probably wont yield the same positive results, and certain things are irreversible. Treasure what you have now. It is a blessing to have a girl who truly loves you and have 2-way love. Some of us just aren't blessed to have it 2 way. Learn to let go sometimes gives you better returns. Sometimes, learn to appreciate what you have.
2007-04-21 23:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by henry_fy7d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy can't decide between two girls it is only because he has not found the right girl.
2015-11-09 23:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Stas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only you can decide which one of these to girls you will be with.
You have to think of things like which girls share the same intrest as you, which one treats you better, personallity of the to girls, all depends on what you like about the girls.
You have to separty the pro and cons about the both of them.
Good luck!! Hope I helped ya.
2007-04-22 03:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all check your grammer.
Secondly well it is upto you but as you waiting for that girl for 4 years than why are you considering the new one.
Its like you wasted your mind for 4 years thinking of her and now you want the new one.
2007-04-21 22:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful with the decision that you make. Making decisions is part of life and one of many things can happen. You get with this girl and she is amazing or goes downhill. You are still with your girlfriend, not knowing that this girl can be you soulmate.
2007-04-21 22:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you waited 4 years for this girl why are you even considering someone esle.
2007-04-21 22:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by mimsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zack, don't fall for "the grass is always greener". Always ask yourself, "How would I feel if my current girlfriend did this to me?" Remember this, If she's been with you that long, you should be honest with her. Don't abuse people unless you want to be abused.
2007-04-21 22:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Bea S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick-up the 2...
Next time your name will be on I-cheat-her.com.
Good luck but remeber : "Pierre qui roule n'amasse pas mousse"
2007-04-21 22:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Otto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 girls- one you've chased for years and one you might be starting to like? Back away from the new one and chase the one you've longed for for so long.
2007-04-21 22:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by slert1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋