2007-04-21 22:02:54 · 24 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because im pregnant and my doctor adviced that we can't hav any sexual activity anymore, it may caused miscarriage.
2007-04-21 22:45:20 · update #1
Eventually, yes but it doesn't mean I will forget about it and I don't think I will be able to remain in the relationship after that. Once trust is broken, it's broken.
2007-04-21 22:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Maricel S 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope. I agree with poster #1. The commandment against adultery is right there in black and white, written in the Ten Commandments. The Bible which is against divorce even allows a divorce IF the spouse has committed this.
I'm getting married next month and for the last two years I've told my fiancee that if he ever wants to have an affair-he better at least tell me so I can leave.
2007-04-21 22:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To all those who will remind you of the 10 commandments they may want to read a bit further.
Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Rock.
If he is regretful and you both want to make things work it is possible, it`s difficult and both of you will do a lot of growing during that process. Maybe he will not do it again, maybe he will. If he does it again then you know this is not a battle you can win and at least you did give it your best but if you kick him out now you will always wonder if you should of just forgive him and try to work it out.
2007-04-22 00:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've got been by way of this as a toddler. My sisters and that i've got been youthful whilst my mom had an affair with an worker, i replaced into approximately 6 on the time. My dad tried to artwork issues out and that they stayed at the same time till i replaced into sixteen. She had yet another affair whilst i replaced into sixteen yet this time she left my dad and sisters for him. i won't be able to truly forgive my mom for it. we don't have touch and in spite of the incontrovertible fact that she in straight forward terms lived approximately 5 miles from me we don't bypass to or talk. If i replaced into married devoid of toddlers there is not any way i ought to forgive my husband. i could bypass away till now our youngsters confronted the years of heat-soreness and soreness my sisters and that i went by way of. My dad could have left my mom the 1st time she did it to him. Now we are all older and it hurts lots extra once you have a extra appropriate understand-how of the region. If it replaced into my boyfriend i could only bypass away and decrease him off. there is not any reason somebody won't be able to easily destroy up with you rather than cheat on you first, different than selfishness. i don't experience sorry for cheaters. as quickly as they cheat i think they're going to do it back. i do no longer believe in marriage.
2016-10-03 09:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the details but the short answer is NO. If it is your boyfriend, then you can always walk away AFTER you get all the details or both sides of the story. If it is your husband, then you have to talk about it-why it happened-whether he still loves you-whether you love him etc. Then if you want to both give it a second chance after discussing the issues together (at home or with a counsellor), then make a decision.
You have to weigh up the positives and negatives of staying together, and above all whether you still have feelings for one another. We are only human.
2007-04-21 22:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Fifi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of course I would forgive him because God says to forgive and over look faults with Gracious forgiveness if we wish for God to forgive us for our sins.Plus when you forgive, it tends to make you appear more good looking But that doesn't mean I would continue a relationship with him because I feel that if he cheated on me one time, it won't be the last time and he will take me for a weak little joke. Instead I would let him go, pray that God will send him another good woman and that he may not cheat on her because if i'm. firm and set a good example by leaving him, he may learn from his mistake while he's with the next woman. And while Im praying for God to send him a lovely lady, I'd be praying for God to help me through the whole ordeal and request that he send me another God fearing man to replace my ex and help me be patient. And if he(My new man) was to cheat I'd repeat the same pattern all over again no matter how many men. PEACE AND LOVE COUSIN!
Warning!!!! This type of behaviour should only be done by strong minded women who loooooooooooooooove's the male race and who have an extremely high self esteem. This advice may do nothing for women who are weak minded.
2007-04-21 22:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
BF - idot for straying from you at this time of need.
Doctor - idot for not explaining that while intercourse may be out of the question, that you should be sensitive to BF's needs and keep him satisfied.
You - are you serious? What a mess.
2007-04-22 01:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by realchurchhistorian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would... I believe that everyone does make mistakes to learn. But once is enough and worth forgiving.
If he commits an affair the second time, I wouldn't forgive him
2007-04-21 22:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simply NO. Remember the oath couple took in their marriage vow?
2007-04-22 04:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by bullseye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. I would kick him out and never talk to him again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you let him get away with it he will know that you wont leave him for that reason, and will continue to cheat, even though he "loves" you.
2007-04-21 22:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by liebedich85 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋