2007-04-21 21:47:01 · 33 answers · asked by Charmed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whenever the two of you feel like it. Life is short, enjoy it while you can. He's taking all the risk, not you. Unless you're married, too!
2007-04-21 21:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by slert1985 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
There is never a time when it is okay to have an affair with a married man. You not only destroy your own life but the life of his wife and children. Stay clear of such a relationship. Nine times out of ten it would never go anywhere anyway. They are only using you to have thier cake and eat it to so to speak.
2007-04-22 04:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now I know a couple people who started out with all intentions on a fling thing and ended up haveing feeling for that other person trust me they will never leave there wives and you will always be there nothing better to do. I know you dont want to feel that way so stay away from that situation befor you get hurt and if you think your not that kind of person trust me again your just like that sex is physical at first but always ends up very emotional for a women I know someone who has been haveing an affair for 20 yrs that started as an office fling its not worth seeing everything she has gone and is going through
2016-04-01 01:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married man chose a wife. He agreed to stick to her only. There may be a reason you haven't thought about for his cheating. He may have an illness nice people don't discuss and married men don't tell. These ailments aren't always apparent but believe me they are not what anyone wants for just having a fling with a "nice" guy. Careful girl you may be picking up something that could stop you in your tracks!And believe me I'm sure you're not the only one he's cheating with either. What's in it for you? Nothing but trouble!
2007-04-23 08:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never would probably be the best time... step back and look at the question... whatever your reason for getting involved with him... fact of the matter is if he's considering stepping out on the wife... there's no chance of the two fo you ever developing a tursting relationship... fact of the matter is... he's probably just looking at a little recreation on the side. Secondly...check your motivation? is it coming from a "just because you can" mentality... or the fact that you KNOW there's no chance for a long term intimate relationship... (I.E. a fear of commitment on your part) ...regardless... If all your interested in is some recreation... I'm sure you can do much better than someone who can't be trusted.
2007-04-21 21:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok to have an affair with a married man, when the man is married to you.
2007-04-21 21:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have seen a separation order, they are no longer living together, and you have spoken to his wife to make sure that they are only married on paper because they have to wait a certain amount of time by law before they are able to get the divorce.
Other than that, it isn't okay at all.
2007-04-21 21:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not really. He might deciede to do so... and you might seduce him... but it really is not okay. does he intend to leave his wife? if not, then don't. Imagine it is your hubby who wants to have a fling with someone else... would you like that? or give yr permission? I've almost had that affair with a married man. He was head over heels for me... but I couldn't get my concience to go along... so... I left. It kept hurting for ever.. but his marriage only just survived and nothing had even happened. So be very careful if you do not want to destroy him . Ask yourself if it is the fling you want or if you love him so much you don't want to see him hurt... make your choice that way...
2007-04-21 21:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There really is no excuse for an affair.If you don't love someone enough to be faithful to them then walk away.There's nothing more heart-breaking than finding out the person you trusted and gave your heart to didn't care about you enough to stay faithful.People usually cheat when there's something missing in their relationship and rather than try to work it out,they stray.
2007-04-22 02:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never.
Even if he doesn't love his wife, or whatever, he should have more respect for his marriage and his family than to cheat. If he doesn't, it shows such a total lack of character and integrity, why would you want to be with him in the first place?
You deserve more than someone else's husband.
2007-04-22 01:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If going to hell, incurring the wrath of God, the hatred of 2 families that sanctioned the marriage, and setting yourself up to reap what you sow are worth it, then by all means forge ahead.
Do not play the fool.
2007-04-22 01:45:33 · answer #11 · answered by realchurchhistorian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋