i decided to have the baby but my bf dont want the baby and he is treatening me not to visit him again and he pray harm to the baby. what shall i do?i am confused? why human so mean?
2007-04-21 20:50:59 · 20 answers · asked by jj 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
find a man who is compassionate, and is willing to help you with your baby. The last thing you want to do is bring up a child in an environment where a man is threatening to harm you or your baby. You, and your baby deserve far better than that. Do what is best for you and your future little one. Hopefully he has a change of heart. But, until that happens you have to protect yourself and your baby.
Be strong.
God bless and good luck.
2007-04-21 21:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by brooke3348 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go straight to the police, tell them he has threatened you and the baby and ask for help finding safe accommodation. Unless you're in some third world country, the police will help. Make sure you stay out of this man's way from now on. If you're a church member, you will find moral support and practical help there too.
You will be entitled to child support from him, but for now, your safety and your baby's safety are far more important than getting money. All in good time. I wish you lots of luck from one single mum to another ...!
2007-04-22 04:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by aussiepom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, do not abort the child because there is a verse in The Holy Quran where God says " do not kill your children,for killing them is a great sin". And besides him maybe not being a kind dude, It could be that he either thinks that you may pay him no attention after the baby is born. A big HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE mistake that women make after a baby is born.2. He may not be financially stable.3.He may not like kids( Lets pray that this is not true).
But if he does not want kids then you need to rid yourself of him Quickly because God has given us strict orders to procreate, multiply and replenish the earth.
2007-04-22 04:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a woman of desition. In a future he' feel bad for not giving you support. There are a lot of public institutions that can give you free support. And I am not including the government support. Your child will thank you, and you'll feel the satistaction of being a good mother.
You rocks!
2007-04-22 04:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you get away from this guy, the better. He doesn't deserve you or your baby and you'll both be better off without him. Sorry that you have to go through this alone. But something better for you will come along when it's time.
Good luck.
2007-04-22 04:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by ღ†Rocker Wife†ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, you shouldn't even be questioning what you should do. Have your baby and move on without him, you will find someone who will love you both. Your boyfriend doesn't deserve you, and he should go to Hell for wishing harm to a baby.
2007-04-22 04:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that before you had sex outside of marriage. Stay away from him, he sounds dangerous. You don't need a person like him. I can tell that you do not speak English well and may not be from the U.S. I don't know how it is in your country. Can you get a job and support yourself? Can you go to a Christian church to get help?
2007-04-22 04:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have it anyways and neer talk to him just get the child support money from him. I see it as it takes two to tango but because he doesnt want to live up to his mistake he can still pay for it. Also congrats on the pregnancy.
2007-04-22 04:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by pinkmaniac86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, ignore him, sue him for child support once the child is born. He made this baby, he should have to take responsibilty if he wants to or not.
2007-04-22 03:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok get rid of the boyfriend. BUT make him pay child support...the best part about this is if he doesnt he goes to jail.
people are mean - in this case because hes not wanting to take care of his responsibilty.
2007-04-22 04:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋