What is your personality like?

Question

Describe it in best words available to you.

thanks.

WHAT DO YOU LIKE AND DISLIKE ABOUT IT?

WHY?

DO YOU KNOW WHAT A "PERSONA" IS?

YOUR FACE, MEANING YOUR SHOW IN FRONT OF OTHERS.

WHAT IS THAT LIKE?

Answer 1

Indescribable. Can only be felt. Not seen or heard

Answer 2

My personality is positive, caring, loving and sensitivity to others, compassion and honesty and integrity.

The face I show the world is all of this and I try my best to leave out the self-doubt I occasionally feel because it passes quickly, as does the sadness and frustration at the usual struggles with life.

It would be so nice to be able to dump on people that complain all the time, but what good would that do?

So I just journal every day in my special leather bound book I bought at Sam's last year. I journal the good stuff and the bad. It is like talking to a trusted friend. When I have filled that one, I will buy another and another.

Then, if I live long enough, I will write a book on how everyone thought I was this Pollyanna type, always so nice and never down or disappointed but in reality I am just like anyone else on this planet. I just choose to deal with it differently, positively.

Is that what you were looking for?

Answer 3

I'm very complex. What you see is not the real me but what you see is what you get.

People see a jolly, friendly, extrovert, full of fun and generous with time and ... everything. Willing to help to the extent of self-sacrifice. And if I can help it, that's what they get every time.

BUT

That's not the real me. The real me is depressive, insecure, reclusive, nervous of everyone and everything. Extremely low self esteem. I KNOW everyone is better than I am, they deserve everything I can give them because, as a poor excuse for a human being.

I deserve nothing but the crumbs of their civility if they want to throw them to me.

A few people know about this side of me and they can't understand it, they don't know how my public face and how I feel inside can be so different. But when you've been bullied and had negative conditioning all your life (I was first told to stop being 'so childish and silly' when I was seven years old - by a teacher), it's quite easy to feel you are nothing.

My sister and brother get quite irritated with me when they encounter my .... I'll just stay in the background ... you have your own families now .... you won't want to be bothered with me .... I'm the bairns' aunt, not a parent or grandparent, I'm off to the side ... attitude. Sorry but you did ask for the best words I have and these are actually the words I use.

They want to draw me in because I have no family of my own, so they want me to feel part of their families and the more they push me to be part, the harder I try to pull away.

It's not logical, I know and eventually, I know they'll get sick of trying and will let me be on my own.

Someone else has said that they have kept a diary for a year and write things in there. I've been keeping a daily journal for the past 26.5 years, since I was 14. I used to call them my woe-is-me books and I've tried to tone it down a bit in recent years but they still get my 'rumblings' from time to time.

Answer 4

My personality huh?
Wow, I don't like mine at all. At first I was going to answer this question by saying, "ask my husband", but then I thought about it more. I need to stick up for myself even though I hate the way I am.

I'm the nicest person in the world. I'm the person who never likes to say no. Even if I want to say no, I can't. I never yell when I'm mad at people I don't know. If I'm mad at my husband I turn into insta b!tch. I'm a whole different person. I'm shy around new people and I talk a lot to anybody I know well. I'm friendly, almost too friendly/nice. I always try to help others. In fact my husband is paralyzed. I'm a giver not a taker. The bad thing about me is I let people walk over me too much. A lot of people don't respect me like they should. I hate it.

Answer 5

Good:

I am a person who cares about everyone, even people I don't know. I'm shy when you meet me, but talk a mile a minute when you get to know me. I can get along with anyone, any age. I have a gift of understanding people, which makes people talk to me and open up a lot

Bad:

I argue a lot, and have to have a last word... I am extremely opinionated, which isn't always good because I don't know how to keep it to myself. I can be jealous. Can be kind of stubborn when things don't go my way. And I'm the type that thinks I know everything, so you can't really argue with me about something and expect to win.

Answer 6

Random. That's the only way I can describe it. I change the subject every 10 seconds. So does my brother, he and I get along really well.
My persona- I'm quiet until I start vocalizing my random thoughts. I mean seriously, WHY ARE THERE SO MANY HOUSE FLIPPING SHOWS ON TV? Christ on a crutch, man.

Answer 7

Friendly

Answer 8

Outgoing, personable, humorous, silly, and argumentative...
I love my personality...I don't wear a mask when I am around people, but I also don't care what people think of me. If I did, there would be an excessive amount of unnecessary stress in my life. I wouldn't change a thing!!

Answer 9

Shy, untrusting, insecure, innocent, sarcastic, and flirtatious.

I hate that I am not assertive enough. I wish I had more confidence to express myself better and not worry about what people think of me.

Answer 10

Im shy when im around new ppl, but when i know the person, i am extremely outgoing...i can be judgemental at times and i hate that i am becuz i HATE it when ppl judge me...i wish i was more easy going when im around new ppl and not so shy!!

Answer 11

sensitive. worried. immature someimes. But good thing is we can change our personality if we want to, though it takes some effort.

Persona... I know it's close to personality, I don't know the diffrence...but love to know. May be I'd check on it later today..