me and my boyfriend..?

Question

me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 years now(going to be on june27) im 17 and i can move out. he wants me to move with him... what should i do? i mean im always at his house.. he goes to school and work and i do nither, so will i move there and be wasting my time?? helpp!

Answer 1

iv been going out with my boyfriend for around 3 years and im 18 and i moved in with my boyfriend when i was 16 and i loved it but now we get under each others skin but i love him and i couldnt spend a night away from him but sometimes i wish i never moved in and i waited until i was older because i feel like i missed out on my teenage years from moving to fast! No one can tell you what to do but just think of your future! do you really love him can you see yourself being married having kids and having a real future together because if you cant please do not make the mistake of moving in because once you do its so much harder to turn and walk out! You may love him but can you see this being forever! Being together 24/7 can get annoying and u spend so much time together and you start to fight and then you know what happens! Just dont rush your life you have plenty of time!

Answer 2

First of all, does your boyfriend still live with his parents? If so, I'd have to say no, don't move in with him and his family just because.

Secondly, I think that you should be working and saving money of your own before you move out. Why? What if you move in, things don't work out, and you need to leave? What are you going to do with no way to support yourself? I say it's never a good idea to rely on another to support you. Be able to take care of yourself---you never know what's going to happen.

Also, you don't sound very sure about this. If you're having doubts, there's probably good reason. You're probably not ready yet. Sounds like you're a high school kid. Why don't you graduate high school, get a job, start making money, and if you and your boyfriend still want to live together, then think it over again. :)

Answer 3

Wow, what a question. You are too young to be moving in with a guy. You should get yourself back into school. You can't make much of a life for yourself without an education. Please go back to school. If necessary get a GED. Then head for the closest community college. This is the best thing you can do for yourself and for your future children and family. Good luck.

Answer 4

You need to get out and do something with your life girl You sound like all you do is just sit and wait for him to come home Does your whole life revolve around this guy You said you don't go to work or school My advice to you is to be self sufficient before you move out of your parent's house because once you move out they don't have to let you come back but you need to start your adult life find something you enjoy doing and get busy be it work school or whatever It is not very fullfilling to sit around taking up space You will have plenty of time to stay at home after you two have kids down the road if you choose

Answer 5

Go for it!Life is an adventure, a novel waiting for you to write it.You'll always make mistakes but its just another life lesson, ya know?It won't be the end of the world if you hate it or it doesnt work out.I would though like someone else said, keep good family ties in case you have to move back in with them.Good Luck best of wishes!

Answer 6

ur still kinda young.. even tho u have been together for three years and see each other everyday and are over each others houses everyday is WAY different than living together. i know ur saying "its the same" im not saying it will be bad but u must be cautious. remember, youll have to clean and do laundry maybe even cook for you and him and you prolly do those things at home anyway right? but its different when your living with a guy and you have more responsibilities than ever before. just think about it maybe itll turn out good for you and maybe it wont. its not gonna be sex and sleeping all the time.. ur gonna have to do some work around the house and pay bills and a million other things. just talk it out with him and good luck to you!

Answer 7

i can tell you that moving in with someone is very hard, i moved in with my boyfriend after only one month of dating and i was only 17 but at the time i had a job and we had both graduated from high school togather. Before you move in with him make sure you ay least have a job incase you ever need to move back out. ALSO KEEP A VERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS INCASE YOU MISSTREATS YOU AND YOU NEED TO MOVE OUT. No matter what your parents will always be there for you. And in 18 now ive we've been living togather for about 10 months.

Answer 8

i know someone that did that, except it was the other way around (he moved in with her). if you're not going to school or work, how are you wasting your time? --you have all the time in the world. the girl i knew didnt go to school but she did work but she's still bored to death every day and she gets mad at him for doing his hw instead of giving her attention. so he gets annoyed and eventually starts checkin out other girls, but they're still together.

so i guess there's ups and downs.. u guys will start getting on each other's nerves more, but you'll have more time together. but i don't see how it'll waste your time if you wont be doing anything anyway. (unless you meant to say you work and go to school too.?)

Answer 9

well I suppose one can try it for a time, How do you feel about it? This is a big step, are you ready for this? these are all questions you need to ask yourself. Take care, and I know you make the right decision for yourself. Good luck.

Answer 10

If you were the least bit OK with this, you wouldn't be here asking the question. The fact that you are means that the answer to living together is no.