I have been haveing sex with my boyfriend for about a year now. For the first 3 months, it was pain free. We could do numerous positions and be as wild as we wanted. Then, one night we had sex and it was the worst pain I have ever felt. It felt like he struck something, I even got diaherra. Since then, it is painful to have sex. It hurts pretty bad when he puts it in deeper or if we do certain postions.
I went to Plan Parent Hood. I took a PAPS test and an STD test and passed with nothing wrong. The doctor said it is possible he is hitting my cervix--- but if that's true then why didn't it hurt when we had wild sex when we first dated???
HELP??? any advice, concerns, or possible explinations would be helpful.
thank you
2007-04-21 16:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by adnamarie 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How long does it take for my cervix to heal?
2007-04-21 16:35:18 · update #1
if you aren't aroused then it is easier for him to hit the cervix. it's likely you were quite aroused back in the first 3 months, that may have been the difference. also if the cervix is already irritated, then it needs a good time to heal and having more sex only further irritates it.
Your cervix just needs to rest to "heal". Sometimes it takes only a day, other times a week. Be in touch with your body, if you are still hurting or it hurts when you first begin to have sex then it is too soon to go at it again.
2007-04-21 16:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that having hurt you during sex that you are not as relaxed anymore, which is why the things that were alright before are no longer comfortable? If so you need to work out how you can work together, to make it more enjoyable.
Could you be chronicly constipated? The bowel lies at the back of the vagina, and if its too full, it leaves less room for the penis, and that could explain the differences in the positions.
Have you had children/ difficult births? It could be you have a partial prolapse. This is where the ligaments holding everything above the bladder loosen and they press down onto the vagina, reducing the room, and possibly causing pain when making love. If its not too bad, pelvic floor exercises could help.
Could be a cyst on the ovaries, endometriosis, fibroids or something totally different.
But in all if you are experiencing pain during love making, go to your OBGYN, for a thorough check up.
2007-04-21 16:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happend to me, I found that with more and more sex, even with long breaks the semen was causeing a sever irritation to my cervix, some times even causeing it to bleed, and then the contact of the penis to it was causeing even more sever irritation, sending me into extream pain and yes diarrhea also... I suggest a douch every 3 days, depending on how often you have sex, and even wearing a condom all the time, and If you have always used one, I suggest trying to stay away from the deeper positions, or maybe it is some kind of lubracant that may be causeing irritation... trial and error is all you can do... I found condoms and a more shallow possition has helped me keep the pain away. Good luck and I hope it helped.
2007-04-21 16:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Holly M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he is hitting the cervix. That is soooo painful.. You have been with him for a year, bodies change..grow, mature. Just don't let him go so deep..Good Luck hun~
2007-04-21 16:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, i went and got a obstetrician to give me an ultrasound and it turns out that my fallopian tubes are to low so when having intercourse (if to much deepness) i would feel pain. i got use to it but you should try an ultrasound first and see what the dr says, Good luck.
2007-04-21 16:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by apurdy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've kinda gone through something similar myself. When I have pain during intercourse with my boyfriend, it's usually right before my period. I don't know why, but it just does. Try waiting until after your cycle and try again.
2007-04-21 16:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soreness for the period of the 1st trimester can basically be led to by employing the physique adjusting to the being pregnant - your cervix has to close tightly, and your coxix bone will flow very very slightly. in my view, I had soreness from intercourse, because of the fact i exchange into dry from the hormone exchange (my well-being care provider defined to me when I asked him some days later). you should tell your well-being care provider although to rule out different issues.
2016-10-13 03:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have an ovarian cyst.
2007-04-21 16:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have some type of vaginal infection.
2007-04-22 02:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cinderella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋