It seems like I'm in the mood WAY more often than my husband... is this normal? Shouldn't it be the other way around? We've been married for 8 years, we are both attractive, healthy people, and we are very happy and in love.
2007-04-21 16:21:29 · 13 answers · asked by J.J. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Convert your sexual energies into something more productive. If you feel your sex drives are not compatible, it will ruin your marriage. Sex is not everything.
2007-04-21 21:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are the two of you the same age? Because sometimes age can have an effect on sex drive. You both may be at different places in the marriage. I wouldn't jump to any suspicions of cheating because the fact of the matter is sometimes men and women go through phases where sex drive may go up or down. Unfortunately you may experience them at different times from one another. Talk about it, and if you can't come to a compromise, find an adult novelty store and find a few "items" that would get you through the times when the two of you aren't "doing it".
2007-04-21 16:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should talk to him about it. It's possible that there is stuff going on his life, such as at work, that's making it hard for him to get in the mood. Ask what you can do to make it more enjoyable for both of you. Also, its possible that things are tempering down a bit. Try to do some new things- buy new lingerie, try a new position, etc. to make things more exciting. I'm sure your husband will appreciate your willingness and respond. If the problem is biological, such as imbalanced hormones, there is medication available that will help restore his sex drive.
2007-04-21 16:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 16:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different sex drives. The important thing is to find a compromise. Talk to your husband. Has it always been like this? Maybe he is under a lot of stress lately.
2007-04-21 16:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the opposite with my wife and me. Let's trade!
Actually, it's about the only thing in our lives where we aren't a really good match. Sex isn't the most important part of a marriage, but the frequent frustration does get old.
2007-04-21 17:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by MathGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult to say, but is it possible that there might be someone else that his sex drive is being distracted by...if not, maybe you should as him what he would like to "spice things up".
Good luck
2007-04-21 16:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, he is just not interested in sex. Maybe he enjoys your company.
Or it could be that he likes to self pleasure himself or he has another woman on the side?
And way study his habits to see what has his mind off of sex!
Good luck!
2007-04-21 16:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdreams_0423 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it happens that way sometimes, Especially since womens sex drive goes up as we go into our 30's and mens go down
2007-04-21 16:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm in the same boat you are. And can you believe men always complain that it's the WOMEN that don't wanna have sex?!?
2007-04-21 16:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by cs_ds_02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋