do friends massage each other or is that more of an aspect of a relationship?
i love her, dont know if she feels the same.
2007-04-21 13:49:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, For me it would depend on the closeness of the relationship. I've given a great many massages, but, with my best friend, it is only because I love her to death (as a friend only) and I know she's had a bad day. If it were an acquaintance, then a massage could be viewed as a prelude, or even foreplay.
2007-04-21 13:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the person. Some people are happy to massage and be massaged by mere acquaintances. Other people don't like it unless they're in a close relationship.
I fall into the former group.
2007-04-21 14:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by garik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At work I used to give massages, but there was a female friend of mine that I had a weird sexual connection to...& we would give each other back massages alot. I would be careful...it is normal, but until you know how she feels, it's just platonic.
2007-04-21 14:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by maeveangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love massages, but that doesn't necessarily mean I want to make love to the person giving the massage. Give your friend the massage... and see what happens... maybe she loves you too - one way to find out!
2007-04-21 13:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you both massaged each other?? you love her and dont know if she does it too??
uuhh my sister does all kinds of weird stuff with her friends.. she once knew that a friend of hers had a really bad crush on her and he started to annoy her and she kinda hated him but though she went to his house, watched a movie and got in bed with him and kinda made out and stuff even though she knew that this would end up in a fight xD
he thought she loved him too but my sister just did this to show him her friendship-love to him... :D
thats how she is.. i dont understand her^^
i dont think this would help you but im sorry =[
2007-04-22 04:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Marusha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had or given an actual massage but the girls at work give each other neck & feet rubs alot when it's slow.It sounds nice though! :P
2007-04-21 14:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i accept a massage about every other day from a guy, i love it, he has big strong hands, and he comes to me asking me if i want one!! lucky me, ha?!
2007-04-24 04:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. She may feel the same about you.
2007-04-21 23:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tall Chicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.
2007-04-21 13:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya ...u asked her and she probally needed one
2007-04-21 14:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by IXI MiiRANDUhh IXI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋