No, I am serious...
she's 57 years old and is set on making my life hell!!
My husband and I got married last summer and she has been set against me(Im mixed blk and white and he is white)she wanted him to marry her friends daughter but we had been together since we were 12 and got married when I was 20, since then my husband doesnt really fool with her anymore and my father in law moved into another home he owns because he also didnt find her racism something to live with because of the things she said to me and we just had our first child whom the mother in law vowed to NEVER ever have anything to do with.. anyway I was leaving to go to my parents house and she literally blocked me in my driveway with her car screaming an ranting that Ive ruined her family she kicked my car.. I spoke kindly to her and she started calling me some really racist names.. I was raised to respect my elders so I dont want to get violent with her, but I have a baby to worry about now I havent spoken to my
2007-04-21 12:06:26 · 14 answers · asked by Giggagirl 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
husband but I know he will be angry and I really dont want this hostility with her among our family any longer it has lasted too long, but she follows me around all the time.. when my father in law asked her to please leave me alone she broke down crying I just dont know what to do about her anymore I really wish we could be friends, but Im really worried shes going to try to hurt me,., i dont want her around my baby at all.. and Im seriosly considering this restraining order...
Thanks in Advance
2007-04-21 12:08:26 · update #1
i personally would go for the restraining order because you should not have to put up with that sort of crap out of the mother outlaw and good for your husband for what seems like backing you on this issue though it must be very hard on him cos unfortunatly she is still his mother
2007-04-21 12:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by arniesmum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if i were you i would, then if she ever blocks you in again or even comes within so many feet she can be arrested for vilolating the order0and as far as her following you around that is stalking and there are laws agaist that-it doesnt matter who is going the stalking just because she is a 57 yr old women she has no business following anyone like that.
I admire you for respecting your elders as you were taught-i know many people that probably would have had a physical altercation with her by now(which would only make things worse) you have a right to peace in your life and you are not going to get in any other way it seems-good luck to you-do it and dont feel bad at all-she asked for it. and by the way i dont know where the peron lives that stated she could have no contact with anyone in the household-but that is NOT TRUE-she cant go to your house of course but could still see your husband as he could go to her house-a restraining order is for one person only not a household---which means no letters phome calls emails etc....
2007-04-21 12:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could always go with a temporary restraining order if it's really bad. Perhaps it might send her the signal that you're through with her abuse; at the very least, it'll keep your baby safe. Also, if a judge knows about the circumstances, he or she may also require your mother-in-law to seek some kind of therapy or rehab.
2007-04-21 12:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband to talk to his mother first. Later on it's going to suck if she wants to see the baby and you have to leave because of the r.o. But if comes down to your childs wellfare, do it.
2007-04-21 12:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by AidansMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think before you go getting a restraining order you should discuss it with your husband. A restraining order against her FOR YOU means she can't talk to HIM either. Restraining orders forbid direct or indirect contact, so she won't be able to associate with anyone that lives in your household. I understand it's tense between you and her, but can you really put that wall up between your husband and his mom?
2007-04-21 12:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by RING GIRL II 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
once you and your fiance get your own position she may go away you on my own besides so i imagine you should attend. even in spite of the truth that Im useful your fiance see's how undesirable she acts in the route of you it would want to in all likelihood nevertheless damage his feeling in case you went to the lengths of having a restraining order adversarial to his personal mom. you would possibly want to easily have your husband tell her that shes no longer welcome on your position (once you get one) yet when she delivers to be on her ideal habit than you'll both visit her at her homestead. in basic terms tell your fiance that you do not desire her to have your manage I wager he might want to understand. save the "getting a restraining order" stuff for once you've children because in case you imagine shes going to placed your children in chance than you want one!
2016-10-18 02:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would.You wouldn't take it from any one else would you? She shouldn't be an exception to the rule because she is
"family." Your baby doesn't need to be around such behavior. Even if she doesn't get violent your baby doesn't need to be around her racist mouth.
2007-04-21 12:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by MISS K.I.A. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YIKES..sound like a Jerry Springer script...woweeee
2007-04-21 12:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by EDWARD D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should get a restraining order against her.
2007-04-21 12:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by georgia_peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It might just be what needs to be done. If it doesn't work, hire a hit man. DSIJK
2007-04-21 12:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋