me and my partner have not long come out of a 7 month relationship, he lived quite far away, and we saw each other every month or so. he split up with me 4 months ago 2 days after we went on holiday, i asked him what his reason was and he said his head couldn't take a girlfriend. a week later i text him to ask him a question and he said i cant talk now i'm with my girlfreind, i said when did you get with her, he said the day we split. eventually they didnt work out and he sed he wanted to give us another go. so i took him back, he was really nice when he come down untill a couple of weeks ago he said i think we should be freinds. today i find out that he has a new girlfriend. but i still feel i want him so much. please help as i feel we were meant to be :)
2007-04-21 12:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by belcherleanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on. He has.
2007-04-21 12:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok. So he finished with you because he couldn't handle a girlfriend, but started seeing someone else the same day you split up??? Then they didn't work out so he wanted you back??? Now he just wants to be your friend and has a new girlfriend???
Babes, I don't want to sound nasty, but erase the "doormat" sign from your forehead and forget about this useless, and most probably cheating, scumbag. I agree; he doesn't want a girlfriend...he wants several.
If you were meant to be, you would be, the fact that he's had 3 girlfriends in the last 4 months speaks volumes. You sound like a sweetheart, so please, don't do this to yourself; NO man is worth it and you deserve so much better.
2007-04-21 12:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy cannot stay faithful whilst you are apart, he`s not mature enough for a long distance relationship at the moment. I would move on and stop looking....eventually the man your meant to be with will find you.Good luck and dont answer his txt/calls.
2007-04-21 12:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by sexyma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
I think its time to call it a day. If he is just keeping you hanging on while he keeps looking for something that seems/feels better...dump him & although it will hurt because you feel you love him its the best thing to do...
If you love some-one who doesn't love & respect you then its love thats wasted...
Move on & ask him not to call you any more..
You are then free to meet the person of your dreams who WILL love & cherish you.
Move on, don't waste time looking back with a sad heart...move forward to see the window of oppertunity thats open to you.
Tell yourself you are worth more than that.
2007-04-21 12:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by skippy's mum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's easy to say, but i think you should just move on. He's just using you when he feels like it and it's not right. I've been through exactly the same thing. It's not worth the heartache.
2007-04-21 12:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by kb1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on, u can do better than him,u'll feel the same when someone else comes along,it might be hard but u have to cause he has.good luck
2007-04-21 13:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by lauren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. hes using u, do you not feel that you deserve better. are you not Worth more that being someones plaything. hes playing with your emotions and you are letting him. have you no self worth, self respect. next time he calls asking to get back with him tel him to piss right off. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAT HIM.
2007-04-21 13:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by buffeyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's treating you as a stop gap, have you got any big brothers to beat his ars#.if not contact me i'll sort him out .
hate men like that ,he can't have any sisters to treat women like that
2007-04-21 13:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by jammys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adios Amigo....
2007-04-21 12:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by dude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-04-21 12:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋