Crossdressed with wife support since 18 and now I am 34. Kids are gettings older now (6 & 4 girls) and I know one day they will wake up and come down the hall when I am dressed or see me in panties in the bathroom or see bra strap under clothes. Should I just accustomize them to this second me. There are worse things that your daddy could be like a druggy of something. Dressing makes me more femenine and more caring. Wife has always helped me but she too is unsure about the affect on kids.
2007-04-21 11:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is a tough choice, but since your wife is supportive of you cross-dressing, there is idea the could help. Have your wife plan a girls only day at home for herself & the girls and when your wife tells you about it, have your daughters there too. Then you should ask why you can spend the day with them and have your wife say if you dress-up like one of the girls you can stay. And have you wife ask your daughters what they think about you staying, but dressed as a girl.
It's just an idea, but it may help if you give it a try.
2007-04-22 08:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Crossdressed with wife support since 18 and now I am 34. Kids are gettings older now (6 & 4 girls) and I know one day they will wake up and come down the hall when I am dressed or see me in panties in the bathroom or see bra strap under clothes. Should I just accustomize them to this second me. ...
2015-08-19 08:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kinsley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crossdressing is a sexual fetish. Sorry, but I am old fashioned...sex and fetishes should be kept in the bedroom. Is it really necessary for you to carry this out into public, as in the rest of the house? Sooner or later, if not already, you are going to want to go outside in public dressed as a woman..not a good idea. I have seen plenty in my day, and this is one of those things I have seen. It may look like your family approves, but trust me, there will come a day when daddy will be an embarrassment. Is that what you want for your children? Can you honestly say that you would intentionally embarrass them? IF so, I suggest that you get out of their lives sooner than later. I am not on a soap box here, I am a gay father. But, I did not have sex with my partner in front of my kids. My lover and I were natural around them...they lived with me 4 days a week. But we did not get passionate around them, but then again, my wife and I did not get passionate in front of the kids...we were loving, but not passionate. I see no difference in this and crossdressing. Keep it to yourself, in your bedroom, and leave it at that. IF you desires cannot be controlled, then you have a problem far beyond what can be suggested here...you need professional help. Get it before a disaster strikes, and it will strike sooner than later if you continue down this path. Good luck to all concerned.
2007-04-21 12:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
It's like any other 'secret', you WILL be found out sooner or later. Sooner just gives it more time to fade and become normal. You not only have to consider YOUR kids, but their FRIENDS. Sleep overs an what not. Their parents could freak and then it cost YOUR kid a friend. Sure you could be worse off an a druggie or perv or whatever, but in some minds it's all the same.
2007-04-21 12:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.TwoCrows 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to have a big conversation about it, especially right now with the one only being 4. You could talk to the 6 y/o about it. I'd suggest taking the approach of talking to her about her ideas of what is male and female and letting her know that there are some people that don't feel comfortable conforming to those roles 24/7 in a way she'll get. (And that you're one of those people of course.)
2007-04-21 18:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If you think your kids are mature enough and won't be (not to be rude) creeped out or disturbed by this, then tell them. If not, try to hide it from them. Another thing to think about is will they tell anybody else and how will that ultimately effect you? Even if you tell them not to tell they might. All things to think about. (sorry...not really an answer!)
2007-04-21 11:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by Zach W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them and explain what daddy likes to do but it is only fun for you and mummy. Before I had my surgery I used to dress and my daughter caught me and was shocked but when we explained she supported me. In fact she liked to help me but she was about 12 when she found out. Be honest with them and dont let them find out the hard way. Whoa babe you say in your profile you are only in your twenties and female. Are you telling lies. If you cant be honest to us you cant be honest to the children.
2007-04-21 14:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
uhhhhhhh.............
why are you a girl who is asking a question as though you are a guy crossdresser?
you must be a transgendered crossdressing, gay, father. i read your profile, and you are not a 34 year old father.
weird.........
2007-04-21 11:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it's unhealthy for them to be exposed to this at such an early age. Maybe you should just do it when they're not around, or just in your own bedroom. You'll make them confused and they'll grow up with problem.
2007-04-21 12:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋