my frnds have been gossiping about me alot ,and started a rumor i dont kno if shud again let them be my frnds?

Question

i talked to them before they said theyd stop and this time thier sayingthat it wasnt them but i just i cant believe them i mean and then one of them called the other day saying that i offended her by a joke bullshit she offended me with gossip and this time they said theyd stop one of them did but i dont kno if a shud believe them

Answer 1

With friends like that who needs enemies? Talk them, give them enough rope...if they do it again...drop them. Life is to short to deal with childish evil people.

Answer 2

A true friend does not gossip about you. If they disappointed you the first time, it's their fault. If they disappoint you the second time, it's your fault. A true friend is someone you can trust not to gossip about you and spread rumors. You don't need people like that in your life. They will only bring you down. Good luck.

Answer 3

If they were really your friends, they would not be gossiping abotu you. Friends are kind of like a support system. They make you feel good about who you are by accepting you and they are there for you when you are down. Obviously, if they did care about you, they would not have started a rumor about u.

You could talk to them to see whether or not they are really your friends. Tell them how you feel about the gossiping and the rumors, for instance, " i felt hurt because you were gossiping and spreading rumors about me." Just explain how hurt you were by their actions. If they don't listen to what you say, they are not your friends. Friends listen to what you have to say.

good luck and god bless. Hope this helps you out.

Answer 4

Do you know what the rumor was about? If so confront them.
In either case, talk to them, and get the rumor gone.
If they are your true friends.......get it settled, and ask them
why they started it.
I really can not answer your question, unless I were in your
shoes......
Ask them why,
why didn't they tell you about the rumor they are passing?
Put a end to the rumor.......then ask them, if you had done it. to them
would they still be your friend?
Put the ball in the other court!
Sincerely, hope you get in resolved.

Answer 5

I guess even you can tell they're not tru friends? You guys will probably never see each other in the future. So just forget them and try to get new friends, who like you for you and would treat you greatly.

Answer 6

That has just happened to me. But i WILL not talk to that girl ever again. And i lost a couple of what i thought were my best friends. But teh best ones are the one's that won't talk behind your back. So i would try to talk to them, and then if they don't want to talk SHUT THEM OUT!!

Answer 7

If your friend's were gossiping about you then there not really your friend's, there probally just acting like it to get info, or use you. Make some new (trusting) one's!

Answer 8

They are not your real friends if they are spreading rumors about you. Get new friends you don't want to be friends with people who do not respect you

Answer 9

i have been through the EXACT same thing...they aren't really ur friendz...u need to hang out with people who like u for u...people have spread and spread stuff about me...just ignore...cuz they will stop trying to bug u if u pretend that it doesn't bother u even if it does...they are just jealous..hope it helped

Answer 10

if they were really good friends they wouldnt be talkink crap about you if you want them to still be friends with you i would confront the rumor and be honest and tell them how you feel.