Is it wrong for me to want a wife that stay home and take care of the kids, i dont mind cleanin cause im a clean freak but, just be a house wife pretty much. I'm kinda old school when it comes to relationships but is it bad, especially in today's times?
2007-04-21 09:50:05 · 16 answers · asked by Big Daddy 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I wouldnt mind supporting at all id give her all she wants specially in the bed as long as i felt like she was taking care of me in her little way of being my care taker when i wasn't there.... govt takes care of fireman i could afford it! and id be there alot still but the gone every now and then too...
2007-04-21 09:58:59 · update #1
I am a firm believer in the motivation dictates the appropriatness of the belief. Why do you want your wife to stay home? In and of it self I would say it is not a bad thing. The motivation behind it might reveal more deep rooted issues however. If your desire it to love, protect, and provide for your wife and family then wonderful. If on the other hand controle, manipulation and other issues are your intrisic motivators then you may have more things to consider.
You will also want ot look at what that woman wants. And also realize that what she wants in the beginning may change over time. The willingness to adjust to these changes is a true predictor or lifelong maritial bliss rather than one set way of thinking or acting.
Good luck to you.
May you find what your soul truly desires.
2007-04-21 10:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by cuddlefire78 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women should stay at home if there are very young children involved. If a man can support his wife and they live comfortably, then in my opinion, it is fine for the woman to remain home. However, most of today's women are not so submissive.
2007-04-21 16:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it isn't wrong for you to want that. If your wife does also and you can afford it, I think it is a great arrangement, especially when the kids are young.
2007-04-21 16:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's what you want. I am sure there are women who don't want to work and would prefer to stay at home anyway.
It's all about personal choice. I could NEVER do that myself, but don't look down on someone who want to. You just remember she will have a tough job and she will need breaks every now and again!
2007-04-21 16:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by sandibum 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I'm a stay at home wife and mom and my husband would not want it any other way.
2007-04-21 16:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by SAMMY 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not bad, but if she wants to work when the kids are older you should definitely not stop her from trying to pursue a dream.
2007-04-21 16:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Pumpkin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately not, as long as she wants to be a stay at home wife. there's nothing worse then making her if she doesn't want to, she'll be depressed and upset. but as long as she doesn't mind then it's all good!
2007-04-21 16:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by TPAY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as you have a good job and can support the family all my ur self...then no, there is nothing wrong with that.!
2007-04-21 16:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound suspiciously like Sandstorm, only not as bad.
2007-04-21 16:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The world would be a better place if everyone thought the way you do.
2007-04-21 16:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by dcdcdcdc 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋