is not attracted to him or she is attracted more to someone else?
2007-04-21 08:19:47 · 17 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-04-21 08:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a multitude of reasons. Selfishness is the number one reason. If a person feels neglected or unattractive or something of that nature they look to fill that need instead of repairing that within their own marriage. It is all about ego. Thing is, the grass is generally not greener. Attraction only goes so far in a relationship, then comes the hard part....maintaining the bond when the initial passion wears off. That is what seperates the men from the boys and the women from the girls.
2007-04-21 15:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes the attraction is not serious. Just because she is attracted to someone doesn't mean she's going to cheat. If she does cheat it's because there are problems in the marriage to begin with.
2007-04-21 16:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my experience a woman cheats because of relationship issues and not just because of physical attraction. You are thinking like a guy. Guys often cheat just because they want sexual gratification. Categorically, women cheat because they don't feel loved or valued. Sex is usually secondary to the unmet emotional needs women want.
Remember, this is a categorical generalization. We all are different regardless of gender. However, what I mentioned above is often the case.
2007-04-21 15:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think women cheat more for emotional issues then looks. If they cheat because of looks they are very immature and should not be married. I think women cheat more because they are not getting what they need at home and the other man is doing these things for her. I do not condone cheating I think a married couple should communicate to get thier needs met ,then if they are still not met then they should divorce and find someone who will meet those needs.
2007-04-21 15:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well she ain't gonna shack up with some guy she didn't like. Some women like to use a vibrator, others the real thing. If the ol' man ain't doing right, she's gonna go look for "Mr Right"...
2007-04-21 16:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by Movinonup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the attraction is gone than she needs to do something about it. cheating on your spouse is not the way to go. she needs to figure out if she wants to stay married to him or not.
2007-04-21 16:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple,. Cheaters are scum, and their motivation is immaterial. How can it possibly matter? Their actions brand them as immature, selfish, subhuman scum. I know that today we're supposed to "understand" that "nobody is perfect" and excuse deliberate acts as "mistakes". So, today cheaters are everywhere. Ain't enlightened understanding wonderful? I favor a law requiring a cheater be shot on sight, as a social duty- rather like shooting rabid dogs. But, of course that'll never happen.
2007-04-21 15:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I would sure hope not. There's always going to be temptation, but a mature married person will remember the vows they took. Otherwise they shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.
2007-04-21 15:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The only reason a woman would cheat on he huband is because she's a slut. The same for him - - whatever he's called.
2007-04-21 15:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in most cases,it might happen.so hope it don't happen to u.but if its already happening,let her go cuz it's only cuz u nothing but pain.am sure there is some one out there that will be attracted to u.
2007-04-21 15:35:08 · answer #11 · answered by leen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋