2007-04-21 07:36:54 · 9 answers · asked by Giggles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You left this question too open ended...
He locks or turns his cell phone on vibrate and you notice one number coming up often on the bill.
The vehicle he uses most often has a different look to it. Cleaner or smells different inside. Doesn't want the baby seat in it.
He didn't used to be so thrilled to go to work. Now he is working late or going in on his day off and you swear you heard him whistling under his breath when he went out the door. Traffic has gotten horrible making his drive home much longer.
He needs a hair cut, something more stylish and he wants you to buy him new underwear, today. He seems to be more concerned with how his clothes look on him.
When you question him about missing time in his day he uses too many words and/or words he does not usually use.
He swears he told you something important and you are certain he did not and gets overly mad that you dare inquire.
and on and on and on...
2007-04-21 08:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl if you are asking the question you know.It is called woman's intuition. Of course he is not going to come home and say honey guess what I did today? I cheated on you. He might be confused. Unless you are one of those paranoid wives who always think the worst then you know. Some tell tell signs are ......new cologne, new underwear, started caring about his looks. His stories don't add up.Good luck girl.
2007-04-21 14:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Heather D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, If you have complete trust in him and believe that he is not cheating on you then you wouldn't be having these doubts. Trust means that you have confidence in him and in your relationship with him. If you do not have confidence in what he is telling you then that means that you are having doubts because he is acting as if there is something fishy going on.
Why don't you talk with him and if he still act's as if he is guilty about something then I think that you should take a break from him for a while.
Good Luck!
2007-04-21 14:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably better to talk about this with a counselor. The counselor can walk you through your suspicions and help you see things you haven't seen, or help you learn to identify any issues of mistrust. This is a serious topic. Talking to a safe and confidential person, in person, is the best thing to do. Make sure you see a counselor who shares your same values.
2007-04-21 14:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think he might be,does he hid his cell phone?are there calls he steps out to take?does he smell like another womans perfume when he comes home late from work?are there e-mails you can't read or know about?has he changed moods?does he pull away from you?does he work late alot?there is just alot of clues that stare you in the face but you just don't notice them til you start looking.....but only if you think he could be cheating on you.trust has to be earned not given
2007-04-21 15:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even asking the question, you know he is. Get to counseling and fast. You married for better or worse and this is the worse but you can get pass it.
2007-04-21 21:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A part of you must believe that something's not right. You mind is telling you one thing and your heart is telling you another. Just keep your eyes open.
2007-04-21 14:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust that he's not,.......your question doesn't make sense.
2007-04-21 14:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look for clues.
2007-04-21 14:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋