how do i block out peoples negative comments about my facial appearance and listen to the good?

Question

ie i am always getting called ugly when other people say im ok

Answer 1

You are not ugly. People can only make you feel bad if you allow them to.

Answer 2

A million people can look at the same photograph and see one million different things. Who cares what people think if they're wrong? I have people call me all kinds of names and threaten me all the time on this web site, but I don't care. I know I'm right and that they are wrong. They are entitled to their opinions, so are you and so am I. Sometimes other people just have some difficulty remembering how to behave like ladies and gentlemen. Those people do not matter, and no one values their opinions, cos all they have is negative things to say. That's a pretty shallow and empty life, and they are jealous of anyone who is not as miserable as they are. Just remember that story of the ugly duckling (who wasn't ugly at all) that turned into a beautiful swan.

Answer 3

Just ignore them. When you look in the mirror and like what you see then that's all that matters. When people start to talk bad about you think about when you woke up that morning and how good you thought you looked. Simply block out all the negatives that they have to say. They are more then likely jealous that you look better then them. People only belittle people that they feel "threatened" by. So if you show them that you don't care about their opinions then they will shut their mouths!

Answer 4

The best thing to do when someone calls you ugly is to realize they need to tell you that to make them feel better about themselves. Giving in and believing their comments just makes them grow stronger so don't do it.

Also, there is no such thing as a physically ugly person. People can only be ugly on the inside!

Answer 5

The next time you look in the mirror, remind yourself of the things you're proud of about your appearance. It might not be easy to ignore the people who tell you you're ugly. The next time someone calls you that, think of the things that are positive about your appearance instead of focusing on the other things people point out.

Hope this helps!

Answer 6

how dare someone call you ugly! no one has a right to say anything like that to another person, ever! at the end of the day it doesn't matter what other people say about you as long as you are happy with the person who you are inside. it might sound cheesy but it's the absolute truth :)

Answer 7

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Answer 8

It shocks me in this day and age that people would still call another person ugly!
Is the person calling the names so flawless, do they really think they look that good? Are they so damm perfect? Do they have have perfect personality? I don't think so, these people aree not friends and you are best to avoid them at all costs.
The best way to live your life is to treat people in the same way you would like to be treated yourself, that way your friends will be the best and they will see your best side.
Good luck in life.

Answer 9

I loathe people that criticise the way other people look. If people have something positive to say fine- otherwise I wish they would keep quiet.

Take no notice of them. I get it all the time, my behind is non existent, my behind is too round, I'm too skinny, i've put weight on, my hair's too straight, it's too blond, it's gone too dark.

I never remark about other people's looks, unless I praise them, because I think- oh that looks nice etc.

Love who you are and ignore the other shallow idiots.

Answer 10

i know how hard this is as ive had similar experiences, i always think of it as not everyone will fancy, get on with, like or love everyone, the people that say you are ok are good friends/boy friends whatever and they see you for who you are aswell as what you look like and are probably more genuine people, the ones who call yo ugly are just superficial and you should just curtly say to them well opinions vary and yours counts for nothing! usually they aren't the most intelligent breed and will not actually understand this last comment which gives you yet another opportunity to laugh at them!

as you get older you realise that alot of people in this world just dont matter to you and neither does their opinion on what you look like, youve got to realise that your you and you need to look in the mirror and be able to accept yourself for who you are, im sure your not ugly your just very sensitive and these pillocks who criticise know this and will say it even if they dont atualy think it just to put you down .....

be strong i hope this helps from a fellow ugly duckling who is actually a swan!! xx

Answer 11

Dear Positive,don't take this crap.I was always told that I was ugly as compared to the other girls.Thanks to my old photos,I just become so proud when I see how different I was and how jealous people were.