Is it harder with the opposite sex than it is with same sex..... i'm not saying this is how it is or should be i'm just curious to know, and it's interesting.... what do you think?
2007-04-21 06:27:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Wise words i don't think it is your place to tell me not to be so curious..... is that not how we learn about each other?.... if everyone followed your statement how on earth would we advance? i can ask whatever i want to if it offends you please restrain yourself from answering all of my questions, which i see you have so far.
2007-04-21 08:39:14 · update #1
I would love to make eye contact with you, but your body is so interesting I feel I might find it more than a little difficut to maintain.
Seriously, I find eye contact with the opposite sex to be quite complimentary as it gives the feeling of someone paying attention. And if I am talking with a woman, I aways compliment their eyes, because 1. eyes are the windows of the soul: 2. They are beautiful and I love to look at them: 3. Ladies spend a lot of time tryin got make their eyes look their best and I appreciate that. And personaly I would much rather make eye contact with a woman than with a man even if it is just passing someone on the street. As an aside, on the street, I find that women more than men are seeking to make eye contact. And some times the eye contact makes me shudder with anticipation, I LIKE that.
2007-04-21 07:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by MT C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Never - I love to make eye contact & infact in my sphere I'm quite famous for that because I always like to see the sincerity of expression in a person's eye. And I think the ONLY time people find it a bit hard to do so is when they have some romantic feelings for someone & that's quite understandable because that's a bit somehow different situation. Otherwise if there is nothing in there then I don't quite see why anyone would find it that difficult to do so. In a professional environment we encounter dozens of people from opposite sex & so far I've never seen anyone finding it that hard to make eye contact either.
Btw I don't think it's in your best interest to be so curious about so many things. Certain things are better to be left alone to nature to remain as mystery.
**** In Response to your comments:
Well Rebellious, No your this question didn't offend me though there're others in the past which were quite offensive to all. But I think here you're NOT being that open minded to accept an answer. But the thing is you're on yahoo answers now & being humans we all do have an opinion so if you can't bring yourself to stand or accept an opinion then don't ask questions. Because I also DON'T LIKE people telling me how I should answer.
And yes since I'm on Q/S, As an user I've the right & I can answer any question I would like to & to me it is more a yahoo question & so if I feel like answering I will do so - and to do that I don't think I need your permission either.So try NOT to act like a Big Bully & learn to show some RESPECT to other users. We're a commuity here & so we've to tolerate & show some respect for each other and then only we can truly learn & grow together & advance in the real sense.
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2007-04-21 07:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rebellious1607 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I lied. I'm still awake. Eye contact is an art form I think. You give it for different reasons sometimes unconsciously or you don't for maybe the same reasons. When you walk down the street, eye contact, if done respectfully and appropriately is a form of safe communication with a stranger we are unlikely to meet again in our lifetime especially in a big city.
Those that avoid eye contact altogether are usually unhappy souls.
2007-04-21 06:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by John M 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No I don't with the opposite sex and not in a flirting way. I find it harder to make it and keep it with the same sex but I am closer to men then I am female. I have way more male friends and only one female friend....
2007-04-21 07:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I use to always have problems with it. It just felt akward. Even after dating my boyfriend for over a year, I still feel a bit akward. But he's noticed & get's on me about it. So now it's becoming more of just common courtesy to look someone in the eye when your having a conversation with them. I work at it though for sure. :D
2007-04-21 06:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by absosarahlutely 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think it is easier to make eye contact with girls than guys. Unless I know the guy then I can make eye contact. It's hard to say. Just depends on who it is I guess.
2007-04-21 06:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by truckgirlnr 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It used to be, but not anymore. If you're confident in yourself (and telling the truth) it's easy to do. Plus you can usually tell if the other person is lying that way, because THEY'LL look away!
2007-04-21 06:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, I have absolutely NO trouble making eye contact but have to work on "the look" that I give because I've been told that I look confrontational sometimes.
2007-04-21 06:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not hard for me at all. I can learn a lot from looking into a person's eyes.
2007-04-21 06:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by JenJen 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Only with beautiful people of the oposite sex.
2007-04-21 06:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by CrazyFarmer 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋