Say for instance if a man is away from his family for months at a time, is it possible to manipulate them into sleeping with you...having a sexual affair with you....whatever it is you may want? Is it possible to make them actually question their happiness in life and/or marriage even if they have told you that they are happily married. This girl worked with him at his job everyday for 10 months? Just curious. How do these women break up marriages that seemed perfect beforehand? I know it takes two, and it is the married man that is cheating, but can they actually be manipulated into doing something?
2007-04-21 06:22:13 · 29 answers · asked by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A man can be seduced by any woman. It is in their nature to be easily aroused. But manipulated into falling in love with the other person is a stretch. He may find that the new person is exciting and new. That is really a problem for the wife since she is no longer exciting and while he is in the infatuation process she becomes even less so. She is the one who nags and needs him to do things for her while the other one is available sexually and has no strings. Kids and money problems also compound it. The wife can hang in there hoping that the infatuation dies down but she will have to be loving and understanding if she will ultimately win this war of wills or she can play tough and kick him out and begin changing herself so that he see what he is losing and feels he may have made a mistake. Again she will have to forgive him and put it behind them if she is going to save her marriage. It is tough and not too many women can do this. Best advice is get the finacial settlement in writing with a lawyer while he is still feeling guilty, if not he will soon justify his wrong behavior and take his funds too. Good luck.
2007-04-21 06:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by TERI Sexton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a good rule of thumb; there is not happily married man that is ever going to cheat and or think of cheating on his wife; nor will they be manipulated to do so. The same goes for a happily married wife.
2007-04-21 06:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can force anyone to do anything. Even at gunpoint you have a choice to go along w something or not.
Generally things are not ok with a couple when one decides to cheat. It usually doesn't just strike "out of the blue".
Distance does stress a relationship, but ultimately someone cheats because he wanted to. Btw, don't worry about the tramps that try and turn married men - they are broken people w low self-esteem.
2007-04-21 06:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's possible to manipulate anyone as long as the person doing the manipulating knows exactly what buttons to push. It's sad to say but this type of thing happens everyday.That's why so many people get divorced in this day and age.
2007-04-21 06:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by LadyHavoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man can be "manipulated", he isn't worth being married to . I have a husband that became flirty around this younger woman. I got rid of him. I can't tell if you want to seduce a married man or you are married to a man who may be manipulated. There's something wrong with a woman who doesnt mind being married to a man who can be manipulated..
2007-04-21 06:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Judith H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure they can, but it's dependant of the man's character. If he indeed loves you, he should hold firm and stay away from such a situation. There are men that will say that "they couldn't help it", but that's bullcrap. Sometimes, men just want to try something new and foresake all they've worked for already. I've been married near 11 years now and from time to time the temptations there, but then I just think about my wife and our little boy she carried and that temptation explodes. Not worth it. GL with this.
2007-04-21 06:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pontius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very stong weapon for anyone. He just has to be strong and think of what he will lose. Some women find it exciting and will do anything to tempt a man into having sex with them and it makes them feel good. I find it pathetic if you ask me. There are so many men out there that are not married they should try to go for them. It does take two to tango and if he is weak and could not say no then he is not worth having in your life and what comes around goes around and he will get his in the end.
2007-04-21 06:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes that manipulation is very possible...A man will seem happy with a marrige but if some floosie keeps struttin' her stuff in front of him he may be tempted to look. If the woman is tring to suduce him she will, after all they are men, why do u think there is so many tity bars? bcuz men love to be aroused. If this is yr situation my best advice is try to keep things hot in the apart time...maybe even arrange a congical (spelling?)
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2007-04-21 06:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by jamie_south1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the men's character and integrity i suppose , so if your man is easily talked into things sure , but if he has respect for his wife and himself and children if there are any then no , too many man and women who cheat think that they are just cheating on the spouse but if you have kids are they have kids you are also cheating on them, why anyone would want to ruin a perfectly good thing is beyond me , because most people who cheat are only thinking of themselves ,which cheating never has a perfect come out, but some people get lucky . latter
2007-04-21 06:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can be "manipulated" into cheating, then the predilection is already there.
If he claims that he was manipulated then he is attempting to abdicate himself of responsibility for his actions.
We all have this tendency at times but if we get in the habit of it we will only hurt the people close to us or perhaps even total strangers ( the guy at Virginia Tech did this )
That is an extreme example but it makes the point.
We all need to be called to account for our actions at times.
2007-04-21 06:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by opie with an attitude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋