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Ignore them. If they do more then just talk, report them to the principle. If they try and hurt you, report it to the police.

2007-04-21 06:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 1 0

These people have no right to bully you; it might be a good idea to tell a teacher. And learn to empower yourself; if you feel confident on the inside then people often instinctually leave you alone. This can be done in a number of ways - self-defence or martial arts classes, assertiveness classes, getting a nice hair cut. Also work on your posture - hold your head up when walking and look people steadilly in the eye and keep your posture upright. Also have a firm voice which is neither too loud or soft.
But most of all remember that this is not your fault. The things you go through now will make you a strong and tolerant adult. Never sink down to their level but most of all don't feel alone because so many people go through this and go onto have happy lives.
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Hold your head up, get help and good luckxxx

2007-04-21 13:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by tigertigertiger 3 · 0 0

I used to be called names in school when I was a lot younger but I've moved on. I know what it feels like & it can get really depressing. I used to cry every other night.

I believe in Karma-- what goes around comes around. If they call you names, one day they'll be called names and much worse things will happen to them. One day soon, you will grow up into a beautiful (& smart) swan & they'll be really envious of you. They'll stop calling you names too. Just watch, karma has a way of working things out. Just don't say anything nasty to them, coz then you would get bad karma too.

I know because things worked out good for me in the end. And the people who used to call me names are not in as good a position as I am-- education-wise and looks-wise.

I'm an Indian too btw.

I hope this helps. Just cheer up & move on with your life. They're not worth worrying about. Focus on more important things like your studies.

2007-04-24 11:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by acidten 5 · 0 0

They called Jesus names too but what did he do pray correct so you should pray and I know sometimes you get angry tell them to leave you alone and stop worrying about you and maybe they don't mean it in a bad way but just tell them you don't like it and if they don't give them a name back and see if they like it don't take this to the extreme don't cause a fight be careful no what to say and when to say it...SMILE its not that bad life goes on sweetheart and you are beautiful with pretty hair I know because most Indians do

2007-04-21 13:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 1 0

Hi... I really feel for you. Lots of us know, in one way or another, how it feels to be picked on (for silly reasons, or for no reason at all... that's in fact beside the point, in my opinion... there's no such thing as a 'good' reason to pick on people. Picking on people is a cruel act and, in my mind, has no justification.).

You know, it's so much easier said than done to ignore it when people do that to you. But I would say that in this case, it really IS the best thing you can do... have you ever heard it said that the only thing you have control over in most situations is your own action/reaction? It's true... you may not have control over how other people behave and the stupid things they do, but you do have a say in how you handle it. And for you, it's SO not worth your time to try and get them to NOT be idiots. It's your choice as far as letting it get to you. Really... they can't hurt you unless you let them. I think Eleanore Roosevelt said something similar as well, that no one can make you feel worthless without your permission (or something like that...).

I know it's hard, I've been through it as well... but you can be stronger than you think. You can even feel sorry for them, for how little they know and understand, and how small they are to feel like they have to treat other people cruelly.

However, if it all really gets to be harrassment, I think you should feel like you can tell someone. Are you in school? What about talking to teachers or school administrators? People in your family? Definitely ally yourself with people who DO care about you and treat you well. Don't let yourself feel all this alone, because there are people out there who can help if you need it. GOOD LUCK :)

2007-04-21 13:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Just be your true self because you are not the one with the problem. Those who call you names because you are Indian are simply ignorant and rude individuals you don't need to have in your life.

2007-04-21 13:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1 0

you have to be strong!! do not cry like a baby but just ignore them. In the same time, at school keep on joining your favourite activities. Act normal and participate in all the games you want to. Thats will prove them that calling you names isn't going to break your spirit easily!! I'm sure one day they will be tired calling you names.. maybe you'll get to find true friend too... so stay strong and be confident in yourself!

2007-04-21 13:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by aLeMap 1 · 1 0

Just ignore them. Don't stoop down to their level. Most people call others name because they get a kick out of the reaction is causes. If you ignore them, odds are they will get bored and move on to someone else.

2007-04-21 13:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Мəəĸά 4 · 1 0

If they continue doing it for a long time just tell a teacher or talk about it with an adult you know and can trust. But just ignore them,stand up for yourself! They have no right to call you names for what culture you are in.

2007-04-21 13:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina_l96 1 · 1 0

People who lack self-respect always need to look down on others. The young especially have to struggle with this, because they want to prove they are men and women.
Give them the Peace sign.

2007-04-21 13:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Crackhead 1 · 1 0

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