2007-04-21 05:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mine usually likes to make sure I'm pleased before himself.
2007-04-21 05:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by FitChic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone slacks occasionally. Things can not be perfect all the time or you would stop appreciating the perfect times. If your man slacks sometimes, he should be forgiven.
If your man is not cutting it and you are just not happy then the best thing to do is talk to him, but not when you are fighting and not in the bedroom. Maybe he just needs to know how you are feeling so he can improve things on his part.
2007-04-21 12:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by joycee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd think "Ari's Mom" would know this. Hmmm.
Anyway, ask yourself a question back - "do you always accept his offers of sex, and make sure he's pleased 'in bed', or do you slack off occasionally?"
2007-04-21 14:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been with guys that seemed to be very interested in how much I enjoyed the experience, and those who had fun whether I "got mine" or not...and some who behaved both ways, depending on their own mood.
Unless a woman is also always putting forth the effort to assist her partner with his climax, she's got nothing to fuss about if he doesn't aways make sure she has one. Sex is a multiple person activity and the idea is for everyone participating to have fun, and do what they can to ensure everyone else has fun. âº
2007-04-21 12:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever fake your desire for sex just to please him...or say or pretend you had an orgasm when you didn't?...the point is not everyone, male or female is always at the top of their game or desires...sexually....if you have a great/good/mediocre love life...appreciate the fact he loves you and that, you love him....do not worry about who gets what as much as the fact that it is both a physical and emotional thing that can happen independent of each other but is marvelous when they both coincide!
2007-04-21 12:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by elz98409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one way of looking at I suppose.
Another would be that maybe 1 in 10 times, you could do it the way _he_ likes at the pace _he_ likes. Or does it have to be about you every single time?
Just because he has an orgasm every time doesn't mean he's finding it great sex.
2007-04-22 01:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you would say he takes his time because I like it rough, LOL! Anyway, my man likes to make sure I'm satisfied so he will hold off until I have released. I don't know where he gets his stamina from, but I love it.
2007-04-21 12:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by zianneaaliyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not always perfect, and you shouldn't expect it to be. That would put a lot of pressure on your partner, which can totally put your physical relationship out of balance.
Now, if it starts happening on a consistent basis ... ouch. =)
2007-04-21 12:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by DebR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes he just takes care of me ---- sometimes I just take care of him and sometimes it's for both of us. There's no slacking!
2007-04-21 12:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always finish my woman first. I love to take her there.
2007-04-21 12:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋