2007-04-21 05:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by gyspy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh...sorry
2007-04-21 05:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you are complaining? ha ha
just kidding.
obviously you two have not gotten past your last argument. you both need to resolve the issue at hand and start again.
give him time. don't try to badger him into spilling his guts to you but just carry on as usual (the best you can) and do the housework, tv time, reading, laundry, whatever as though he is not even in the house at the time and eventually he will say something and from there you begin to rebuild your status as a trusting husband and wife team. good luck to you. just don't sweat it. you don't say how long he has been quiet and you gave no further information on the background to set this up for discussion so this is all the advice i know to give to you.
2007-04-21 12:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by lrfoster7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ? First of all you need to know why he isnt talking !!!There has to be a reason,,, Is he upset about something you've done. Or maybe it is work related,, I would rather have my boyfriend not talking at all, is better than yelling and acting angry,, Or if he is concerned and upset ,say about a work issue, give him space,, Be loving and supportive,,,he may just not be in mood for conversation,,, Someting may be weighing heavily on his mind,,,
2007-04-25 00:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gringa_uno 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is based on communication. Me and my boyfriend aren't married, but we really dont talk either.
Its hard. Both of us are not argumentative people. We dont like to argue or get in disputes. And thats rough on a relationship.
Confront him and ask him why he's not talking to you. Perhaps its because you're not talking either. Both of you need to sit down and have a one on one at least once a week on whats going on that week. Open up and speak first if necessary.
Guys, like some females dont like confrontations, but its healthy in a relationship to get things out in the open instead of keeping them inside.
Dont think that he's not interested in you, I thought that too. I finally realized that guys keep their feelings inside and are not like females, they dont like to talk about things that are not comfortable to them.
Try talking to him and see if he opens up, or do what I do, write letters, it helps and you can always erase something you dont mean to "say" as you cant do that when you conversate with him.
2007-04-21 12:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it because of something you've done, or did you have an argument ? He'll probably calm down in a few days, and then you can discuss things. Clear the air and resolve to improve your communications.
2007-04-25 09:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is based on communication.Without communication you have a serious problem.You need to sit him down and talk to him if he won't do that you may want to seriously reconsider your relationship with him.
2007-04-21 12:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to tell us some more girl cuz I can't tell you anything until you give me some kind of idea why.Give me your guess why he won't talk to you. Do you think he is cheating? Do you complain a lot? Give me something to work with.
2007-04-21 12:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by ellasdaughter2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he just doesnt like the subject matter.
Start with a subject that you know will interest him.
2007-04-21 12:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will in time.. then let him know that his lack of communication isn't helping the situation.
2007-04-21 12:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is pretty important. And do you want to stay married to him?
2007-04-21 12:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie Oh! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋