I should start by saying that I am VERY happily married to the man that I intended to marry from the time we met when I was 14 years old. My husband and I never dated until I was 21, though. Anyway, I dated my share of guys in my teens. There was one guy I went out with for about a month. We had been friends for years before we dated. We never even kissed, because it was weird (it was like dating your brother, ya know?). We split up and decided to remain friends. We stayed friends all the way into college until a time when I desperately needed a friend and he turned his back on me. So we never spoke again. Lately (for the past year or so) I have been having dreams about him. I don't think about him during the day or anything. But these dreams are about us getting together and always lead to us "almost" having sex. And we're always with other people, so...It never happens though. I don't get it. I think nothing about this guy. I'm happily married. Why these dreams??
2007-04-21 02:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie P 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I should also mention that I haven't even seen this guy in over 12 years. And I haven't seen anyone who ever mentions him to me in at least that time. And I'm not missing out, I get plenty...like I said, I'm very happily married with 3 kids.
2007-04-21 03:00:05 · update #1
I don't feel anything when I wake up from these dreams. I think, "huh, that was weird..." and go on about my business.
2007-04-21 03:12:13 · update #2
He turned his back on you and maybe you felt hurt or wondered why he did it. Deep down inside maybe you still have ill feelings toward him for turning his back on you and not being there when you needed him. Maybe you wonder or did at one time why he had changed. Could cause you to dream it. The mind is a crazy thing....
Something could have happened to him and you are dreaming about him. If you pray then pray about it. Even pray to stop dreaming about it. That works
2007-04-21 05:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wonder about friends I had a falling out with too...It might just mean that you are wondering if he is ok. I think that would be very possible. Here is what one dream dictionary said about Friends dreams:
Friend
To see your friends in your dream, signifies aspects of your personality that you have rejected, but are ready to integrate these rejected part of yourself. The relationships you have with those around you are important in learning about yourself. Additionally, this symbol foretells of happy tidings from them and the arrival of good news.
To see your childhood friend in your dream, signifies regression into your past where you had no responsibilities and things were much simpler and carefree. You may be wanting to escape the the pressures and stresses of adulthood. Consider the relationship you had with this friend and the lessons that were learned. Alternatively, the childhood friend may be suggesting that you have been acting in a childish manner and you need to start acting like an adult.
To dream that your best friend is dying, suggests that some aspect or quality that your best friend possess is dying within your own self.
So it could be that or any number of things...Obviously if you are having it reoccuring something is eating at you. I mean if you are walking up from these and crying that is something to maybe see someone about, if you are waking up to them hot and bothered...Mybe talk about it with some friends. Especially if you are still friends with anyone that you knew back then. I mean I guess you could talk to your husband about that depending on your relationship...but that is a big hing, and if he is a bit insecure or the jealous type...well no.
Hope this helped a bit.
2007-04-21 10:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by kriltzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes your mind just wants to sweep out all the junk it accumulates during the day.
These are just some loose ends. Pay it no mind
2007-04-21 10:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl! my story is similar to urs..i got married 7 months ago..the thing is before i got married i had an affair with ma ex and he doesnt know tht im goin to get married..so i dump him finally and hes kinda frust!!
so lately ive been dreaming about him alot!! plus im thinkin to meet him..at u know..........
well...whut i can see from this is....it just de devil playin wth ur mind to break down ur marriage life...so be carefull!!
2007-04-21 10:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by young wifey~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something your doing is "trigger-ing" your memory of him. Maybe something on your first date? Im not sure.
But id look him up.
2007-04-21 10:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by The Con 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to be free of the tormented mind.
Ask God to help
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2007-04-21 10:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋