i hate my mom she a rotten **** for wat she did to me and i havent seen her in 5 months and couldnt be happier is that bad?
2007-04-21 00:13:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't know if it's normal but it certainly does happen. I haven't spoken to my father for about a year and have no regrets what so ever. My father remarried after my mothers death and is not the same person he used to be. Life changes quickly sometimes and so do the people we love.
2007-04-21 00:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal to hate your parents. Yes, it is bad. Why would you focus on the negative things about her, after all she was the one that changed your diaper when you were a baby, fed you, gave you a place to sleep, etc. For what? Just so you could grow up and hate her?
She may have done something that you seriously dislike, but hate is such a strong word. There is always a possiblity that you could forgive her someday for what she has done. Remember, life is short and it is important to work things out with the people that you once had a close bond with.
2007-04-21 00:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jay S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously it bothers you or you would not be asking this question. What did she do that was so bad? I have known people to alienate there parents and be very upset when they died because they never talked again. Can you remember all the good things she did for you? Maybe you should get in touch with her and start over, trust me its the right thing to do.
2007-04-21 00:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by gregory_usa83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can become a parent, so if you happen to have some undesirable as one of yours, then it is totally normal and acceptable to dislike, or hate, them. I haven't spoken with my mother for over 3 yrs. She is a really nasty, self-centered and coniving person and until she changes, she is not welcome in my life (not that she's tried anyway). Being a parent comes with obligations, and children shouldn't have to suffer their parents. Even the bible (and I'm atheist) says that parents are supposed to suffer their children.
2007-04-21 00:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents do things to us that we just end up hating them, it happens. I can only guess what she did to you but if it's what I think, I have to say that getting her out of your life was good. Think about letting her back in after you are more calm and you have you're in a good place life-wise, after all, she's family.
2007-04-21 03:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ketsuban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if it's normal or not, but it happens and we just have to deal with it one day at a time. Anger only hurts you, it doesnt hurt the other person. try to forget about the anger you have for the person and try to focus on positive things in your life. Life is too short to be in a funk!!
2007-04-24 04:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens hun. I haven't spoken to my father in 10 years. It has made me a happier, saner person for it. Even family, there is no reason for someone to be included in your life if they do things that hurt you and do not allow you to be who you truly are. If it makes you happy, then keep it up, either she will come around, or you'll live your life the way you were meant to, as yourself.
2007-04-21 00:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
the bible says honor your mother and father that you r days MAY be longer in the land of the living, don't know the situation but i think that forgiveness may be option and just keep your distance to keep the peace but continue to pray for her she carried you for 9 months and hopefully she took care of you so be respectful and hang in there you are not the first and not the last.
2007-04-21 00:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by trini_dads_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is.
2007-04-21 01:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-04-21 00:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by booge 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋