many times I thought that Im a
less girl but after a little conection with
a girl I found that Im not.I tryed
to have a boy friend
so I choosed a boy that he
was 26 and I was16
after a short time I found that
I hate him so that was the end
of he and me.then another one.
And I had 3 boy friend in a short
time!well I love them just for 2
or 3 days and after this time
I think I hate them with out an accually reason!so
who am I?Im confeused....
2007-04-19 23:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by magy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
thats just a stage where you get confused .Think about it because its your decision . Dont worry you get a nice guy.You hate these guys because they have hurt you and have played with your emotions and trust .Dont loose hope dear.:
2007-04-19 23:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Hope Summer 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are normal. You are young still, and what you want for yourself can take a lifetime to learn. So give yourself that time. Don't hurry straight into a full on thing.
Perhaps your just not ready for that sort of connection, and at sixteen not many are. Why not just try being friends, and increasing your circle of acquaintances? Many a good relationship starts with friendship. It could be that the others didn't work out because you didn't take the time to be friends first?
You need to relax, and try not to be so intense so quickly, because if its right for you, it will come with time.
2007-04-20 00:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might just be that you are looking for the wrong guy, maybe just going on 1st impressions then realizing that they have no personality. I think your perfectly normal, in time you will find someone (girl or boy) that you will love. Just don't expect to go out and find a partner straight away, they will probably come along when you least expect it.
2007-04-19 23:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nicely first of all, that's no longer authentic that each and each one females can actually get men...believe me... 2d of all, i imagine you're wondering your sexuality. Heck, in certain circumstances I desire i replaced right into a guy because i'm extra of a tomboy then all girly and stuff.... possibly you need to provide this some theory and settle on in case you need to ever favor a sex replace. best of success :)
2016-12-04 08:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably just didn't have the right connection with these boys.... it sometimes takes a while to find the right person and it sometimes is an effort to make these relationships work.... you are you and you are also young and you are not lesser than others.... keep looking, i am sure someone will come along and sweep you off your feet..
much love from tan
2007-04-19 23:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by taniaisme 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your not ready for a relationship dear ... that's why your finding it so confusing ... back off and slow down a bit ...( trying not to sound like your mum ..lol ) but its true ..
Enjoy ..friendships of both sexes.. you do not have to have a sexual relationship right now .. it is OK ...and believe me when the time is right .. you will know who you want to be with ....
Just relax and enjoy your youth
2007-04-19 23:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Concentrate on school and try to learn to communicate well, then worry about whether you like boys or girls.
2007-04-19 23:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by alis_n_1derland 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl..what the hell are you trying to say? Now if you dont like guys, then go f*ck a girl..and deal with them instead..and learn how to talk while your at it..i dont understand a damn thang.
2007-04-20 02:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
not all girls are boy crazy. just because you've had a few boyfriends that don't hold your interest doesn't mean that your abnormal, just that you have standards. be patient, you'll meet someone that keeps your interest.
2007-04-19 23:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by onlinedreamer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What in hades are you trying to say???
2007-04-19 23:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋