my grandfather's in a coma, my mum's had cancer, one of my aunties is dieing and it's so hard to not be resentful to "whoever" made all this happen. I kind of think it's karma 'coz my extended family is effed up and needs a wake-up call but gah! yea, just a vent. now, do you ever ask why me???
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2007-04-19 22:39:33 · 16 answers · asked by ~ B_e_K_z ~ 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm very sorry about all the health challenges your family is currently facing.
However do not feel sorry for yourself. Have faith in God. Pray, meditate & think positive. After all this is life.
In 2001 I was diagnosed with ALS & given only 2-3 years of life, I had to tell my then 7 yo "Mummy is going to die". But I didn't die. I surrendered to God & consequently received miracoulous healing. I didn't ask "Why me"?.
Today I no longer have this dreadful, terminal, incurable illness & divorced my cheating husband.
2007-04-19 23:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I ask this question regularly. I have had three people that I love very much die in the past few years.
I have personally struggled with health issues that almost cost me my life. It bothers me more that it scared my sons, more than it scared me.
My life has been fraught with difficulty, abuse and abandonment.
I feel for what you're going through. In the end, resentment yields nothing but anger.
Have faith in God, and that his plan is best for all. I know that sounds inadequate, but over time, it always turns out to be true.
I feel your need to vent. Sometimes I feel like I would implode if I didn't say something.
Good luck to you and your family. E-mail me if you need to vent some more in private.
2007-04-19 22:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Understand that u r moving from the very bad Time right now. In this situation just pray to god or worship the god u belive most. if u r hindu(as u have mention the word karma) than i will suggest u to worship lord shiv daily. he will help u to cross this dark days. As he is called Mahakaleshwar. Kal ke Bhi maha kal.
And yes the most imp thing. which ever god u belive the most ask nothing from him just pray him/her, worship him/her.
2007-04-19 22:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Paresh v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop it...These are things that can happen to anybody...It was a bad chance, but please dont lose courage..You never know what the next day will be for you, the best things are always coming, just consider it as a bad moment...Be sure, that a door is opening to you, and very soon you ll have all the best with you...
2007-04-19 23:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all the time.. and then I answer it .. that is the important part.. when you realize it is prepatring you for the next adventure of your life..... charictor is built in the moment you think are the worst .... dont know the exact quote on bobby kenedys grave but it is something like " in the darkest moments of our lives, against out will, we are forged into the people we want to be"
2007-04-19 22:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if ur a woman he does such as you or you should ask him hiya with that... regardless of if if ur a dude, in basic terms ask him, "why you gay?" hahaha jk... thats quite trouble-free, in basic terms confront the guy and be like wats up with you bro... i ahve a roomate who's amazingly socially awkward. And all i do is ask him approximately issues i discover unusual and after he tells me i'm awareness approximately it and thats that, not greater awkwardness between us. and that i advise in his room 24/7, fearful of ladies folk, skool and back, by no potential is going out and met his acquaintances in basic terms as quickly as or perhaps they mentioned he's unusual, form of socially awkward. SO in basic terms ASK! :)
2016-12-20 19:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, i always ask that. Many things just dont go the way you want it to be...or at worse.. u just dont even want anything, and things still go bad!
May be it's karma as you said, because after observing the kinds of problems i have, they seem to be an extension of the problems of my parents or aunts and uncles, may be it's just sth we inherit as well, may be we just have to brak the cycle, but how?
So whenever we just ask ourselves, why me? i think it's because we're just flowing in this cycle ..n may be we just have to break through.
2007-04-19 22:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by thinkinfurther 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bloody hell, that's terrible. I wouldn't bother buying a lottery ticket then. Hope this downer phase passes quickly for you darling. All the best.
2007-04-19 22:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by really sodding nice r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry about that,i hope everything will get well with your family and yes most of us ask this question,its the first question to ourself when a bad thing happens,you have my thoughts and prays~
2007-04-19 22:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by ₪₪₪AbsolutE₪₪₪ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes quite often
2007-04-19 22:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋