well... we meet everyday & ofcourse after he tied the knot things have changed.. im neutral with him etc etc..now he has always been on a denial trip of what ever chemistry ..feelings etc existed ... i just behave around him as he aint alive.
last night ..God knows what happened i just texted him.." we aint same ... and we act weird even though we resolve " he agreed to it and towards the end i wrote that 'cos of old times sake n cos once yu were a great pal.. etc(i wrote 1 or 2 of sweet memory stuff)
i feel silly.. God knows ... why i did it ... but even though i feel silly i think it kinda did me good.. closure kinda thing??
sorry if i make no sense..but .. any views???
( besides ... that i sound drunk?)
2007-04-19 21:40:43 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
posted it here ... cos feel ppl are mature .. execuse me for being indisciplined!
2007-04-19 21:41:54 · update #1
You really can't change it now. I'm glad you feel better and you feel like you got the closure you needed, but just be careful. You don't want to be labeled a home-wrecker. If your ex is married now, so let him be. If he keeps texting you, then just tell him that you said what you had to say, and you feel uncomfortable with him contacting you. Even though it doesn't sound like he's "happily" married (How could he be if he's still flirting with you?), put yourself in his wife's shoes. How would you feel if your husband kept close contact with one of his exes? If he's going to be unfaithful, don't let it be with you. Although you may feel some kind of property rights because he was once yours, bottom line is he's off limits now because he's married.
2007-04-19 21:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ BuffaloGirl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense there's some very sublte, easily deniable resentment he didn't choose YOU.
Hey, things were great (maybe even sex was too) when you both were "friends---with benefits". But things naturally changed when he said "I do" to someone else, putting you out the picture.
Yes....you can say you're protecting your paper lace heart from being torn/broken.....but honey......I think his marriage already did that to you. Time heals....you'll see.
Pour another tall glass of wine.....and everything will get clearer.....at least you'll sleep better anyways.
2007-04-20 04:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i got the gist, he married someone else? hmmmm not so good, but you have to deal with what you have done anyways, so you text him, you obviously felt the need and its done now, and he did agree with you, if he is married to someone else now, he has to deal with that side of things, its outwith your control, but you taking things any further now would be meddling which i wouldnt advise. Bite the bullet and ask him how things stand between you, deal with this, dont let it fester, its not fair on anyone involved, especially the innocent party. Good luck
2007-04-20 04:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure P&S is such a good place for this. might try Dr. Phil --and how is that working for ya?
2007-04-20 04:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-20 04:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋