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For example when someone, without a good education, is not able to say what is really "good" and what is "wrong"...don't you feel like helping?
Thank you.
Have a happy day!

2007-04-19 20:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by tatal_nostru2006 5 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

6 answers

'Help' must be perceived by the 'helpee' as of value or it is not helpful.

So yes, it is wrong to 'help' those who don't know that they need it; you must first convince them 1) they need help and 2) you can provide it.

2007-04-19 20:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0 0

The example you give has to do with being another person's conscience, and has nothing whatsoever to do with their education. The roundabout way you ask your question makes me think you only want license for prying into other people's affairs.

2007-04-20 03:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1 0

You may feel like it, but its only helping you to feel good about helping. If they don't think they need help then theres no problem is there, and to insist on helping is patronizing.

2007-04-20 03:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 3 0

u helping may be hurting them . this is why god himself does not come down in person and intervene.

by u helping, they do not learn, we all learn at our own pace, unfortunately some learn harder then others.

remember always, are you helping them or hurting them?

for your helping may cause more harm then good.

2007-04-20 03:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 1 0

yes because it shows that you are passing judgement on those people. Maybe they don't need help....after all, ignorance is bliss.

2007-04-20 03:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by jknca04 2 · 1 0

WITH YOUR ARROGANCE AND "HOLIER THAN THOU" PERSONA, YOU ARE ONE OF "THOSE" THAT DONT EVEN KNOW YOU NEED HELP!

2007-04-25 14:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0 0

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