I have liked guys in the past and even dated a few. Recently I became aware that I had very strong feelings for a girl I know. NOw I look at the guy I have liked for years and do not have feelings for him like I used to. I'd rather date this girl. I am consfused am I lesbian, am I bisexual?
2007-04-19 14:27:19 · 17 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Does it really matter what you call yourself? If you feel like dating that girl right now then date her and enjoy it. If it doesn't pan out and you end up liking a guy next then go for it and have fun.
It doesn't matter what you call yourself, just do what feels right to you at the time.
2007-04-19 14:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by daphne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why maybe some people conclude that homosexuality is a period of puberty and when a man grows up he becomes rather attracted to women. And thats why there is a confusion whether it is inborn, or caused by external changes in environment and can the orientation be changed. So either you were in something that it is not necessary homosexual but as part of growing, or you are bisexual.
2007-04-19 14:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by master343 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "turn" Lesbian sweetie. The fact that you've dated men in the past, and are now curious about women makes it entirely possible that you're bi-curious/bi-sexual. If you are unsure about your feelings on the matter, and do not want to hurt the man you're with, talk to him. Most hetero men in their right mind would have NO problem with you experimenting just to see, though they like to watch and that can be annoying. Other than that, Make sure you talk to both of them about your feelings. It is better to act on who you truly are then to end up being hurt in the long run.
2007-04-19 14:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prior to the earth being made, there were no carnal urges among the pre-earth male species. The female genetic make-up has been separated and planted into a separate being. If you are gender confused, you need to check the following traits:
1. Do you have dreams whereby someone is choking you?
2. Do you hear growling sounds in your stomach?
Confused sexual wires are symptoms of much more serious activity,
Boaz
2007-04-19 14:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Boaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are Bisexual. But really I would not let it bother me that much go whatever feels right at the time.You have the rest of your life to figure out "What label you want" Right now though you seem to have something like a "crush" on the girl and it makes it seem more powerful.
2007-04-19 14:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright. What I think, is that God made 'the' one for us out there... for girls, its a guy... and for guys, its a girl. Until you find that one, you might be confused and feel different feeling for someone else. Oh geez. There are a lot of gay, lesbian, bisexuals at my school and I don't know what to tell them. It's hard for me to read the Bible and see that it says "No man shall lie with another man." and then see it at school. So, I hope you find that man someday. Til then, I wish the best of luck for you and someday... someday, you'll find the one.
2007-04-19 14:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by MariJo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are attracted to people for different reasons. I would stop trying to title yourself as lesbian or straight and just go with your heart. You only live once...give it a shot. Taking this chance could be the best thing to ever happen to you...
2007-04-19 14:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by GoGreenTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a lesbian? It's a loaded word. It means different things to different people. What does it mean to you?
All human beings have sexual desires which are normal. Just be careful that you place your lust, where your love is already honestly given and whole-heartedly returned. This is the way god intended us to live, and we are happier that way.
2007-04-19 14:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jimee77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your normal. i think most women.....probably 95% have had attraction for the same sex. i say 60% of that 95% don't say anything to anyone. and 35% are cool with it and are either bi or les. either way. i think your normal. I've had attraction for some various women. but never mentioned anything to anyone. not even them.....well. not true. the first girl i was attracted to i told her. i was a teen. she didn't respond. never told another female again. till recently. i didn't tell the woman.....but i told my best friend and it was so hard to say it out loud. but i did and she had shared with me that she has been with both men and women and seen it as normal. cause you can't control who you become attracted to. one of those things society tells us is tabu. did i spell that right....hmm..spell check.
2007-04-19 14:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, that's really a personal question.
I would say you are probably bicurious for sure and maybe even bi or totally lesbian.
They are some wonderful centers in each state who can assist you in your quest for human identity and sexuality.
Here is a good website.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexual_Resource_Center
If you have more questions plz email.
2007-04-19 14:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋