We have been getting to know each other for a while and suddenly our relationship has changed. It is beginning to feel like we are dating and the problem is he's lives with his girlfriend. I told him can't see him until he breaks up with her because I don't think its right. Do guys like that or will he just forget about me?
2007-04-19 14:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by Happy.592 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's one thing to be friendly.....and quite another to be in a relationship. And thank goodness you have realized the difference. Your "friend" is cheating on his girlfriend with you. What makes you think he won't cheat on you later down the road....that is....if he leaves his girlfriend for you. Do you really want to spend the rest of your days wondering if "he" is cheating on you?
Words to always remember....."once a cheater, always a cheater".
2007-04-19 14:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, to your question in general. Guys don't like women setting boundaries. He has all the free nookie from her, why would he give that up to be with someone who's trying to give him ultimatums? He may leave the other girl if she cuts him off. Then you get her sloppy seconds-reject. What do you think of that? Are you not worth more than that?
2007-04-19 14:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. He's NOT your boyfriend to "see". Obviously he's unfaithful and untrustworthy if he's going behind his girlfriend's back pursuing a relationship with someone else - why would you want to be a part of that?
Hopefully he'll forget about you and quit being a coward and split with his girlfriend BEFORE looking for a new partner.
Man, cheating guys and the sluts that get with them disgust me.
2007-04-19 14:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by emmalina * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boundaries, Personal, National, International, are set up to protect the interests of those who place them. If he is burning the candle at both ends...He will get burned one way or the other. Do you want to feel the sting and watch the blisters raise on your skin as well? Find one who knows what he wants..and doesn't want you as a spare tire, or a spare tube of burn ointment. Good call Miss.
2007-04-19 14:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Forgotten Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about him. He's not going to leave his home for you, he's not going to risk not having a place to live. Let him go and find someone who is actually available and wants to be with YOU. Sorry it's not better news, but it will never be any other way. Walk away now and cut your losses short.
2007-04-19 14:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If ANYBODY does not like your boundaries...that's thier problem. If they don't respect you...then you're much better off with them at a distance. If he doesn't like it...be happy if he forgets about you...he's not worth it...I suspect that's the case anyway. You want a cheater?
2007-04-19 14:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stick to your guns whether he likes it or not. Do not live your life wondering if someone likes your every move or your ideas.. Be comfortable with your decisions and the rest will fall out to be the way that it is supposed to
2007-04-19 14:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋