What would a Gemini mom and Cancer baby relationship be like?

Question

all through life

a girl Cancer

Answer 1

Cancer Child & Gemini Parent :

When a Cancer child is born to a Gemini parent, it may be a rather curious family relationship. One may wonder if the other wasn't simply found in a cabbage patch somewhere along the line. Gemini is intellectual, while Cancer is sensitive and emotional. They constantly cross-examine and test one another's limits. Gemini approaches everything in life based on logic and intellect, and is often taken aback by their child's uproarious emotional responses to everything. The Cancer child may feel that they and their parent are worlds apart, and they can't understand how they could be so different. On the bright side, Cancer can teach Gemini how to slow down and appreciate the workings of the world around them. At the same time, Gemini can often get through to their child by establishing a shared interest. Troubles may arise if Cancer feels unappreciated or ignored or when Gemini watches Cancer fly off the handle. Both Signs must understand that although they approach life from entirely different directions, it is possible for them to meet happily in the middle. The best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer family relationship is that--once they realize they're allies--they can soar to great heights together and make a place for themselves in the world. Gemini is thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas and giving frank feedback. This family has a lot to learn from one another.

Bringing Up Young Cancer

Most Cancerians are delightful, fascinating children whose faces show every changing mood. They love to use their imaginations and are easy to manage and discipline when young, providing they are given a lot of warmth, approval, and attention. Parents should laugh and cry with a Cancerian infant and give constant reassurance when he or she is fearful, which is likely to be often. Cancerian children are usually docile and well-mannered, but prefer to be the leader rather than the follower.

Young Cancer's Needs

Cancerian children are very sensitive to emotional hurts and rejections and must have parental support at these times. If they feel rejected and unloved they will grow up to be reclusive, withdrawing permanently inside their shell in self-protection.

What To Teach Young Cancer

A Cancerian child needs to feel free to express his or her emotions in poetry, painting, story making, music making, acting, or any other form of creativity. Thus, young Cancer should be taught the basic techniques and given the space and materials to enable him or her to express things adequately. The parents of a Cancerian child must find a middle way between too much firmness and too much spoiling. Teaching the young Cancerian to use his or her natural instincts to care for others is a very good way of achieving this. A clear and quick punishment will do no harm when necessary, providing it is balanced with much physical affection at other times. When Cancerian children use their vivid imaginations to exaggerate the truth, they should be taught to distinguish between reality and imagination. They need plenty of outlets for their imagination.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

In all honesty most of the time a baby coming into the relationship will change virtually EVERYTHING. You really do need to talk to her For the baby's sake. Just breaking it off is nothing to great You may feel better But that baby will have a very hard life. Separation issues, lack of a father/mother figure. It is a hard thing to do, I mean trying to get someone who dislike talking about it is very hard. But you need to sit her down and tell her. For the baby's sake we need to act as adults and talk about the problems that are occurring! Dont get aggravated if shes not completely into it at first and do not in any case yell at her That will keep her from at all coming out and talking it out. This stage in the relationship is a very rocky one. And about her making weed a problem, It isn't to much of one if you don't smoke by the baby but realize the smoke will be in your clothes, you hold the baby and the baby takes in that smoke. And plus even your baby gets older, its not a very good example and most of the time children do what there parents do around them. So i suggest you quite the smoking (i know its hard i smoke to!) Don't yell at her or EVER hit her And when she goes to explode on you or you feel you will walk away for a moment and take a deep breathe and cool down then go back to talking.. Hope i could somewhat help with this delicate situation! But good luck with it all, and im sure everything will be fine :)

Answer 3

I'm a Cancer (female) and my mom is a Gemini. Although I love my mother. I can't stand her, we're like oil and water. In my opinion, Gemini are too bipolar and two gaced. They go off and act *itchy, then they act all happy and like nothing happy 2 seconds later. They change their mind so much. And I just can't stand them. I really cant. Too the point where we can't get along. We do get along sometimes but I usually have to bite my tongue. We get along 20 or 30% of the time. Ugh, I really can't stand her. My dad understands how she is but me and her are too different. But not our tempers.

Answer 4

First a cancer is realy sensitive and you must understand that was is different from you doen't meen that it is wrong.
Cancer is often worry for no reason but you must always give them good reason not to be worry and repeat them as long as it take.
When there is something big comming you must prepare them in advance like: travel, dead, moving, separation, school...
You must put a lot of positive attitude in your discussion with them.

Answer 5

Cancerian Baby